tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46513630018246876012024-03-12T19:33:32.867-07:00theCrumbster// Do what you can, with what you have, where you are //Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-91444998278747877642014-04-01T11:48:00.000-07:002014-04-01T11:48:49.537-07:00DIY Wedding #11: le Fleur. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Moment of transparency, this is one subject that I probably fail at as a woman. I have never possessed the magical "green thumb," I don't know how to arrange flowers in an appealing way, and my favorite flower is a daisy--partly because I truly love them, and partly because I can't seem to recall any other flower by name. Ok, so I know "hydrangea," but I got lucky because they grow by my parents house. It's all a work in progress, I'm determined to learn.<br />
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Needless to say, I was pretty clueless when it came to the specific flowers that I wanted in my bouquet. Thankfully, my florist/wedding coordinator/good friend, Ginny was able to transform my wish for a "hipster, woodsy, whimsical, wildflower" look into actual bouquets.<br />
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I'm no florist, so instead of raving about flower types I'm going to conduct this post in a very straightforward manner. As a bride who wants beautiful flowers on her wedding day, I want you to know all of your options to help you think outside of the box when it comes to picking your bouquet. As for deciding on specific flowers, that's up to you!<br />
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Your budget really depends on what you're looking for in a flower arrangement. There is a wide variety of what could be done with wedding flowers that I believe whatever you allot to your flower budget, can be worked within.<br />
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Obviously, you can't go small and expect huge arrangements of exotic flowers. But if you can't afford to spend gobs on flowers, I'm going to list some DIY options below that I think are beautiful and affordable.<br />
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Remember to take into account that you'll want more than just your bouquet--there's the bridesmaid's, groomsmen, flowergirl, ring bearer, parents, grandparents, and any other special guests. As well as any decorations that you might want--alter, aisles, tables, etc.<br />
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Personally, I mostly liked simple, wildflower types--so I didn't allot very much of the budget to this area. I'm sure that there are plenty of girls who care more about them or prefer more exotic, expensive types than I did and will invest more into their arrangements.<br />
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I must say that I was very happy (and lucky) to have a family friend that was a florist who happened to be available for my wedding day. It was so nice to not have to really worry about that part of the wedding--one less thing to stress over. Because of her, I never really considered other options or florists, because I knew if she was available, she was my "it" woman. Of course, this won't always be the case. So as with everything else, do your due diligence and research.<br />
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<li>Compare florist prices and services. Not only flower prices, but what your florist will charge hourly. Are they local and will they deliver?</li>
<li>Venue. Does your venue require certain florists? Do they offer a list of local florists?</li>
<li>Ask a florist for prices on various flower types. A daisy will cost less than a rose. So be aware of the differences. If you want real flowers, but can't swing the big budget--consider your cheaper options.</li>
<li>Know what's in season. I was surprised to find out that for our August wedding, most every flower was in season at that time. Lucky me. I say this because if you order something that is locally in-season, it will be much cheaper than having something shipped. </li>
<li>What's in your garden? Or your Moms? Or your Grandma's? If you have some beautiful things growing of your own, then ask the florist to implement those into your arrangements. You'll still pay for their time, but not for the flowers.</li>
<li>Make up an inspiration board. Of course, I made a board devoted to flowers on Pinterest, and invited my florist. This way she could have a better idea of what I liked and was thinking of. Especially helpful if you're not a horticulturist and know the specific species of which flower you would like. </li>
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If I wouldn't have a florist friend, I probably would have gone with one of these options. As with all things DIY vs. "just buy it," it will be more time consuming. So you have to weigh the value of your time with the value of your money. Unless you're going to be engaged for 5 years or just have lots of time on your hands, you won't be able to do everything DIY--especially if you want them done well, or enjoyably. Sometimes it's worth the money just so that you don't have to stress over something. So pick and choose where your time & money will go, deciding what's most important to you. We'll talk more about this later...<br />
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<li>Paper Flowers. This was a big trend around the time that I was getting married--make your own paper flowers. There are SO MANY free, printable patterns or ideas for making these. This would probably be the cheapest route possible, financially. However, this would be a more time consuming route and you run the risk of looking cheap if it doesn't turn out. So I recommend, taking a Saturday to experiment before you commit to it. Remember that you'll have to make not only your bouquet, but for the bridemaids, flowergirl, groomsmen, and even special family members. How much time does it take to make each flower? How many flowers in a bouquet? Will you have enough time? Does it look nice enough to invest your time in? I'm not saying all of this to scare you away from this option, but be fair to yourself so that you don't get in over your head. If you can make it work, it could turn out beautifully! So if you're interested, give it a shot and see how it goes!</li>
<li>Fabric Flowers. Much like paper flowers, fabric flowers run the same risk of time and "cheapness." So I recommend asking yourself the same questions and experimenting before committing as with the paper flowers. But done well, this can make a gorgeous, unique bouquet. I love those who add vintage brooches in with the fabric. Beautiful! Plus, you can choose to either buy fabric flowers OR make them. </li>
<li>Local Market. I almost went with this option and would have if I didn't have Ginny. Someone that I know, went to a local market the day before her wedding and picked out all of the wildflowers that she wanted. She didn't even really have to arrange them because she wrapped them in a loose bouquet that hung over her arm. It was one of the most beautiful bouquets that I've seen--effortless and whimsical. Of course you can't be too picky if you choose to do this, you'll have to take whatever you can find. But I love the fresh-picked, wildflower look! And if you want to look like you strolled through a field of wildflowers on your way to the wedding, than this might be for you!</li>
<li>Learn to be a florist. Jacqueline over at Raindrops on Roses made this one of her DIY projects for her wedding. It's becoming more popular to make your own bouquets for a DIY wedding, so much that you don't even need to take a floral arrangement class, you can just look it up on Pinterest! In my opinion, it would be best to experiment prior to the wedding since you'll have to make your bouquets the day before, and won't have time to tweak or edit if things go south. Especially if you want to make a more elaborate or compact bouquet. As with all fresh flowers, you'll have to keep in mind how long those flowers can endure and be able to refrigerate them. </li>
<li>Think out the box. I personally love the look of dried hydrangeas, perfect for a vintage-rustic wedding. I probably wouldn't want them in my wedding bouquet, but for vase fillers around the venue--yes! Are there other venue decoration alternatives apart from flowers? Spend a day brainstorming with your bestie and see what you can come up with! </li>
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<li>Picture charms. This was important to me because my Pap passed away a few months before our wedding, he really wanted to be there and I wanted to commemorate our relationship in the wedding. The perfect way to do this was through these charms that I found on Etsy. They weren't expensive and there are several to choose from. We just printed out a picture and glued them in, but beware--if it gets wet, the pictures will get gross and even fall out. My only regret with this project. So I would go with actual photo paper or even a finishing gloss to spray over the final product. I made a picture for my grandparents that weren't able to be there, one of my favorite, most special parts of the bouquet. </li>
<li>Memorable remnants. Ginny had the most wonderful idea to incorporate fabric flowers made from my Mom's wedding dress into my bouquet. Not only did we use those in my bouquet, but also in her corsage. It meant a lot to both of us to have that. I loved having special, meaningful pieces like that interwoven throughout our wedding. You could do this with a special brooch or fabric either in the bouquet or wrapped around the stems. </li>
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<li style="text-align: left;">If you go real, hang those flowers upside down in a closet of some sort to preserve them! After they're dry you can put them in a shadow box or even a glass cloche (my favorite!). </li>
<li style="text-align: left;">Or you can put the dried petals into a jar or glass ornament of some sort. That way you don't have to worry about "crinkling" them. </li>
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Amidst all of the planning and scheduling, there are a few, rare gems that are completely stress-free and fun to do. The Wedding Registry, my friend, is one of them. It's one of the few times in your life that you can ask people for exactly what you want in a gift without being selfish--because people are arbitrarily asking. Plus, it gets those gears turning on thoughts of home decorating and coveted kitchen tools. You can ask for all of the things that you wouldn't normally buy, all of those things that make your house <i>your </i>home, and things that will aid in establishing a foundation for your married life.<br />
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We all love presents and shopping, I don't need to blab on about why this is so great--you know! So in order to help you decide on where to register, I've compiled a list of stores & benefits that in my opinion/experience are among the best. Keep in mind that these are my personal picks! This is a short list and certainly inexhaustible when it comes to registry options. But first I must mention some basics...<br />
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For those of us who are moving long distances after marriage, it might be in your interest to not register and kindly ask for money or gift cards instead. Granted there will always be someone who wants to give a tangible gift and it is really fun to register, so if you must (like we did):</div>
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<li>Consider registering where returns are easy and shipping is cheap. If that same store exists where you're headed, you can return it and buy it with that store credit once you get there. </li>
<li>Ask guests to have the item shipped to your future address rather than bring it to the wedding. This isn't always possible, but it's a good option to consider.</li>
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<li><i>Register early. </i>Register early--which shouldn't be hard--so that your guests have time to save up or plan to purchase whichever item they're eyeing up. </li>
<li><i>Register at more than one place</i>. This way there are more options for your guests. This is especially important if your guests don't live close to say, a Crate & Barrel but have a Target nearby. Also know that older guests will prefer to shop in-store and not have to utilize technology as much.</li>
<li><i>Don't advertise your registry in invitations</i>. As mentioned in the "Invitations & Save-the-Dates" post, it's technically rude to do this. Mostly because it makes guests feel as though you only want them to come because they'll bring a gift. Instead, include a URL for your wedding website.</li>
<li><i>Don't ask for money outright</i>. If you're moving long-distance as mentioned above, there are ways to ask for money without being rude. The fund idea listed at the bottom of this post is a great alternative for this situation. Or you can kindly explain in your invitation why you aren't registering and want to pack lightly. I still pick the first option--I think it's a great idea!</li>
<li><i>Say "thank you!"</i> Make sure to stay on top of your thank-yous. Write lists to keep track of who gave what and when. Try to write back within 6 weeks. I failed at this miserably, I blame it on moving right after, school, and my computer crashing with my list on it. Still, I felt horrible having to write late cards--I didn't want anyone to think that I wasn't greatly appreciative. They don't have to buy anything, even though it's an arbitrary requirement for attending a wedding. So be grateful and let them know you're thankful for them and their gift. </li>
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<li>Keep in mind that not all of your guests will be able to afford the $1,000 cookware. While some may go in on a group effort for expensive items, try to <b>add in variety of price-range</b>. </li>
<li>At the same time, <b>don't be afraid to ask</b> for some really nice items. Things that you couldn't afford on your own, but would be a worthy investment. What's the worst that could happen--you don't get that item. Things that you might want to invest in would be: cookware/utensils, linens, and a dining set. Most other things can be DIY'ed, thrifted, or bought at a cheaper price for similar quality.</li>
<li>Make sure to <b>read the reviews</b> before buying something just because it looks nice. I found that a lot of reviews for things that attracted me initially weren't very good, especially at variety stores. It's better to invest a little more money and get something that is actually worth it. Think: will the plates break or scratch easily? </li>
<li><b>Think outside of the box</b>--use checklists to remind you of items that you need but forgot. Don't be afraid to ask for quirky gifts like tents & and games. If it reflects you as a couple, go for it!</li>
<li>Keep in mind<b> the possibility of change</b>. Maybe you're the type of person that has a set-in-stone style, which is great. But for a creative person (that got married young) like myself, my style immediately changed after the wedding from vintage-rustic to modern-industrial-rustic. Perhaps the vintage wedding filled that craving and then I was on to other itches to scratch. With that in mind, I highly valued neutral items that could fit in with an ever-changing style. Such as white dinnerware and neutral linens. Granted, I'm more of a "neutral-with-pops-of-color" person anyway. But it's still valuable to think through as you're shopping.<span style="text-align: center;"> </span></li>
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I'll admit that at first I was completely against registering here. Why? I thought that over-all things were overpriced or that they had limited options because <i>everyone </i>registers at Bed, Bath & Beyond. However, with some research, I found that though some things are over-priced, there are some good deals and exclusive items that can be found there. I finally broke down and registered for some items due to the perks of the store.<br />
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<li><i>What do they specialize in?</i> Wedding Registry. Due to this there is a lot of variety for kitchen & fine dining items. I found it easier to register online, as in-store was a bit overwhelming and I was only looking for a few items. However, I've heard that they are very good at customer service for starting your registry in-store. </li>
<li><i>What are the perks? </i>Popular store at varying locations--easy for guests to find and purchase from. Also, easy returns, 10% completion discount, and regular 20% coupons. Make sure to enroll in the Start-to-Finish incentive program where you'll receive free gifts for you and your guests in registering for certain items. </li>
<li><i>What are the cons?</i> In my opinion, they aren't the greatest in the home decor department. So I would go for the specialty items and snag a nice set of dining ware or something like that. Watch out for things that can be overpriced and <b>read the reviews</b> to make sure it's an item worth getting. </li>
<li><i>Why do I like them?</i> Because they specialize in registries, I found it very easy to find what I was looking for. The online list is very organized. And I found that most of my guests gravitated towards buying from here because it's well-known and most have one close by. </li>
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<span style="text-align: left;">No lie, I love me some Crate & Barrel. It is perhaps more expensive than say, Target or Wal-Mart, but when you're asking for things that you wouldn't normally buy--why not? I found that most things were reasonably priced here, similar to Bed, Bath & Beyond. </span><br />
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<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What do they specialize in?</i> Unique dining items such as earthenware, bone china, and glass. They present a more modern feel in their products. </li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What are the perks?</i> Fast and relatively cheap shipping. Great packaging--you don't have to worry about anything breaking! It's easy to register on-line, which is almost necessary because there aren't as many of these stores around. Also, they offer easy returns within 30 days, 10% completion discount, and have regular sales that are actually sales. Not to mention you can post this registry on FB or register through mobile apps, they are very techy. </li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What are the cons?</i> There aren't very many stores to visit in person, at least in my area. </li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>Why do I like them?</i> I liked that they are more of an up-scale, modern type of store with unique products, but aren't as pricey as Pottery Barn or Williams & Sonoma. I did register at both of the latter two, but I wanted to make sure that most of my requests were within a reasonable price range and Crate & Barrel was a great option for that.</li>
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<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What do they specialize in?</i> Let's just say, it's the classy version of Wal-Mart. So they dabble in a little bit of everything--particularly cute, practical, and reasonable home decor, kitchen, and dining items. </li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What are the perks?</i> They are everywhere, with super easy registration in-store and online. Everything is relatively affordable so there are several great options for guests to choose from. They aren't going to be great at personal registry assistance, but we like being on our own and didn't want anyone bothering us anyway. They are great on shipping fast with easy returns. They offer a lot of variety in style and items for you to choose from. PLUS, they give you coupons and a gift-card, just for registering there. This is how I got the Pro Crest White Strips for half-off. They are also mobile, and offer a 10% completion discount.</li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What are the cons?</i> Being more of a variety store, not all of the items will be quality items. Again, make sure to read the reviews! Also, there is an ongoing flow of product resulting in gain of new items but loss of others. I had to replace several items because it was no longer available online and/or in-store--but there were plenty of things to replace it with.</li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>Why do I like them?</i> They have great candles, cute decor items, and the main kitchen items that I was looking for. Plus, it's a regular go-to store so gift cards were great for me to have for later trips.</li>
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<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What are the perks?</i> Things are very well made with very few bad reviews. I also have a Pottery Barn outlet nearby, which I recommended to local guests. I averaged the pricing to be $10-15 less than in the retail store. You'll receive a 10% completion price on your registry, as well as anything you add to your registry<i> up to 6 months after your wedding</i>! Also, they are very organized when it comes to registering--with things such as: registry workshops, personal consultants, and registry checklists. </li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What are the cons</i>? It's expensive for the name-sake. But if you want something quality, this would be a good place to go for those nicer items that you want to last, like: bedding, towels, or dining sets. </li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>Why do I like them?</i> They make you feel special and they give out quality product, investing in the little things like packaging. I love my dining set from them! In fact, it was much cheaper than most other registry places for a nice dining set. </li>
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<li style="text-align: center;"><i>What are the perks?</i> It's all in one place, which is easy for your guests to search and for you to keep track of. As mentioned above, you can create funds for guests to donate towards such as "the mattress fund" or "honeymoon fund" or "the new house fund." It's limitless, allowing you to personalize your registry and ask for what you really want.</li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>What are the cons?</i> If you register entirely through this site, you'll miss out on the perks of registering in-store with those that offer it, meaning: completion discounts, coupons, and consultants. </li>
<li style="text-align: left;"><i>Why do I like them?</i> I love that you're able to mix & match, pulling from sites that don't offer registries, as most of my favorites were not registry-stores. Especially if you're moving and need money more than gifts, I love the "fund" option.</li>
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Yesterday I wrote about my perspective as a bride on the topic of Photography & Videography. You can<a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2014/03/diy-wedding-8-photographers.html" target="_blank"> read all about that here</a>--it covers everything from "why it's an investment" to "things to know when hiring." <br />
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I didn't want to add in the topic of a First Look because it seems to be it's own controversial topic, and it deserves a bit more space than a sub-paragraph. Plus, who wants to read an overly long blog post? *cough...<i>not that I ever write anything overly long</i>...cough* <br />
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Rather than ramble on, I'm going to consolidate my thoughts into 9 bullet points. Before I do that though, I do want to say I'm not on any particular side of this debate--but I DO know that this worked very well for us and I highly recommend it as a result. <br />
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<li><i>It won't ruin the glorious "aisle moment."</i> Before I converted to the "First Look mentality" I was an avid believer in "no looking until everyone else is." I wasn't against the newly-popular trend of "first looking." But I didn't want to ruin that anticipated moment of walking down the aisle and seeing Andrew's face when he saw me for the first time. I imagined an intensely emotional and meaningful moment. But Andrew wanted the first look for the sake of the guests and our own sanity, so I eventually agreed to it. I realized on that day that I didn't miss out on an "aisle moment" rather I gained TWO, unique moments! The First Look was special, just for the two of us to take in the moment and admire each other. But when you walk down the aisle--it's different, because it's all actually happening. It brings about a whole other set of emotions.<i> Not to mention that pictures are even better </i>during a First Look because everyone can be positioned just right to capture your faces when you see each other. If you're still not convinced, read on!</li>
<li><i>Lose the nerves</i>. There is a certain anticipation and pressure in waiting to see your man on your big day. I felt that same "I just wanna see my man" feeling while getting ready in the morning. I can't imagine having to wait until 6pm that evening to see him--I would have been a mess! Well, probably not. But I'm glad that I got to see him, talk with him, spend the day with him--it helped me to loosen up and enjoy the day. </li>
<li><i>Have a special moment, just the two of you</i>. We'll talk more about timing and scheduling later on down the road--but short blurb about giving yourself plenty of time on your wedding day! Extra time allows for you to have special moments with your man and the people that you care about. Schedule a first look as well as 30 minutes after to spend with just the two of you. How great would that be? Too often we cram too much in in attempt to make more happen, but it just get's stressful. Allow extra time to be with the people that you love, forget about the planning--the day is already here. Plus, it would be a great time to exchange wedding gifts! I'll share more about mine later on. </li>
<li><i>Enjoy the day together.</i> Once you've seen each other, there's no reason to split until you're ready to walk down the aisle. Morning weddings probably change up the timing a bit, but you get the idea. This would be your chance to experience the wedding day <b>together</b>. Who better to spend it with, than your best friend. </li>
<li><i>Start partying sooner</i>. I LOVE this part about pictures before the ceremony. Almost every wedding that I have been to--I have had to sit for at least 1 1/2 hours waiting to eat, waiting to party, and getting frustrated. It's different if you plan on a few hours in between ceremony & reception so people can change or make the commute in between. But in my experience, that's never been the case. It might be your wedding day--but this is one of those areas that you shouldn't take advantage of your guest's generosity, consider the experience in their shoes, and even perhaps compromise. </li>
<li><i>Better photos</i>. My second favorite part about having a First Look is that we had tons of time to take great pictures. Again, a timing discussion for later. But plan on extra time for pictures so that you and your photographers won't be rushed through the process. You can get more bang for buck this way. For us, the wedding started at 6pm, we had a light dinner with our wedding party/family around 5:15pm, so we scheduled our First Look at 3pm. We were able to get tons of Bride/Groom, Wedding Party, & family shots--my whole checklist done AND some extra requests with a little time to spare before dinner. That way we didn't need any pictures in between our ceremony & reception--and they turned out great because we weren't rushing and trying to look pretty at the same time. </li>
<li><i>Your photographers will love you. </i>Did I mention that your photographers will love you? I've never been a pro wedding photographer, but I have friends that are--and they all love hearing the words, "we're doing a First Look." Why? Because that means they have more time to work with to snap the photos that you want. Fair or not, if you don't schedule enough time and your photographer can't get every shot that you had in mind--who will be the one under pressure or blame? Artists need time to work, space to breathe--indulge them, you'll be a happier client as a result. And your photographer won't go grey as soon.</li>
<li><i>Less stress</i>. I remember being completely at peace on our wedding day, from the moment that I woke up and saw a light drizzle (for our outdoor wedding), to the moment that I was all giddy seeing Andrew for the first time, to when I was holding my Dad's arm to go down the aisle. It helps that I knew that I was marrying the right man. But it also helped knowing that I would see Andrew soon and spend the day with him. I wasn't even thinking of having "stage fright" while everyone and my brother's uncle was watching me say my vows. </li>
<li><i>Scratch tradition</i>. Tradition isn't always bad. But in this case, let's face it--there's no such thing as "bad luck." So don't let Grandma chide you into following tradition, when this is a moment made for the two of you on YOUR wedding day. Yes, there are some areas of compromise when it comes to the wedding because that's life and weddings involve family & your man. But take it from me, this isn't one of 'em--here you can have free reign. </li>
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In the end, it's all up to you. Each wedding is unique in the way of timing & situations. There is no right or wrong--unless one of your guests dies from starvation or heat stroke. So plan on what works best for your day. Either way, I hope that my experience will help you decide as you consider your options.<br />
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Remember, next week's post is on Registry tips! Oh, the joys of shopping and planning your home! I plan on sharing all the new fads and trends that will help you make the most of your registry experience.<br />
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Looking forward to seeing you then! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-63277676257333725292014-03-18T14:12:00.000-07:002014-03-19T15:45:07.287-07:00DIY Wedding #8: Photographers & Videographers, oh my!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Good afternoon, soon-to-be-brides and faithful readers!<br />
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I missed my goal for posting on Monday this week, so Tuesday will have to do. Sorry for the wait, but I think you'll find the wait a little more beneficial than if I would have stayed up until 1am finishing it yesterday.<br />
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This DIY Wedding post is devoted solely to the topic of "Photography & Videography." It's a big topic--it can be a bit overwhelming, both mentally and financially. So I'm writing this post purely from the bride's perspective, what I wish I knew when I was planning this part, paired with what I learned from my photographer & videographer friends along the way.<br />
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I know that this whole series is devoted to DIY's and budget weddings--that's exactly what mine was. But I do hold to the opinion that some things should be considered an <i>investment </i>rather than automatically going the <i>cheapest route</i>.<br />
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This post fits into the investment category.<br />
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I want to share how you can save a little bit but also invest and get some bang for your buck. <br />
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<a name='more'></a> As I mentioned before, this part of the wedding was perhaps the most important to me personally. Some people only want some shots taken of the highlights and don't mind if it's from a Kodak disposable by a wedding guest. If you don't mind the risk, that's a great way to save money considering that this is one of the areas that requires the big bills.<br />
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But before you go that route, let me share why I think investing in a good photographer is important, and then you can decide where you wish to go.<br />
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1)<b> <i>It's what you have after the wedding is over.</i></b> In my mind, I saw the photography and videography as most important because that was what I would have left as tangible memories from our wedding--apart from a husband and in-laws. I didn't mind putting most of my budget towards something that would hang on our walls for the rest of our lives, decorate our photo books, and could be shown to our kiddos when they were old enough to care.<br />
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2) <b><i>You might care about the results, even if you think you won't initially. </i></b>I can't tell you how many of my friends I've talked to that very much dislike their photos after it's all over. The reasons vary from going with the "cheaper photographer" to not being specific about what they wanted. In the end, I highly encourage you to carefully consider your options rather than making a quick decision under pressure of "getting everything done & quickly."<br />
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3) <i><b>Most importantly, it's one day that you'll never redo. </b></i>We've talked before about the wedding day being "only one day of your life" therefore don't kill yourself over it. But at the same time, it is <i>only one day that you'll never relive. </i>So on the important things, don't spare the expense because you won't have a chance to take better pictures or hire a videographer a second time around. <br />
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1) <b><i>Video captures things that a photographer can't. </i></b>Now don't get me wrong, I loved our photographer--I'm not saying one is better than the other. But photographers capture moments in one shot that's great for a photo book or frame. Video is an ongoing shot--capturing words and actions. There are so many funny/priceless moments--of toasts, dances, and vows that a video captures that a picture makes into a still-life. In my mind, they both serve different purposes and work best together.</div>
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2) <b><i>Don't dismiss it before you check it out. </i></b>None of my friends or family had ever had videography in past weddings, at least the way that my videographer does it--so it was all unfamiliar territory. I had never considered that a possibility or added it into a budget. But when I found out that my engagement photographer, Kent, specialized in video--I had to check it out. And dang, he and his wife, Ashleigh are good. I was convinced that it was worth the investment. </div>
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3) <i><b>You'll have a personal "movie" to share. </b></i>Our video was a big deal with the family. We watched both the short and long (1 hour long) version with both families and best friends over Christmas break. Not to mention that I probably watched the short version about 100 times myself. Every once in a while, we'll whip it out and get all mushy & romantic as we reminisce. It's great. </div>
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1) <i><b>You're paying for skill and experience. </b></i>There's a reason that the cheaper photographer is cheaper. You probably know this--and at the time of planning, it sounds good in theory to save and settle for decent pictures rather than great.<i> </i>But this is me telling you that it's a great idea to invest a little more for great--remember, you should want to hang these pictures on the walls of your home, seeing them every day. I'm not saying that you should hire the highest paid photographer--but maybe you should consider paying more than $500 and look around for that photographer that suits your personality rather than your budget. </div>
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2) <b><i>You're paying for time and labor. </i></b>When we consider the photographer or videographer and their required salary, it's a bit mind-blowing at first. Andrew kept saying that we need to get into this field because "it's where the money is at." One full day and they walk with thousands of dollars, or so it seems. When you break it down, it makes more sense. Essentially you're paying for:</div>
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3) <i><b>The name. </b></i>Anything with "wedding" stamped on it is automatically expensive. The market knows what's important to a wedding and so the prices skyrocket because most will pay that high price for a special event. It's a rock and a hard place situation. </div>
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1) <b><i>Don't be afraid to look around at your options. </i></b>You don't have to hire the first person that you talk to--don't commit to something that you don't love or feel right about. It's your wedding, your money--you have the right to say "no." Look at the work of several artists--their galleries, testimonies, and pricing/what's included. Each photographer/videographer should have a list of packages--make sure to ask for these. Do some comparison and see what will work best for you and your wedding. </div>
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2) <i><b>Communicate and ask questions. </b></i>What do they consider their style to be? Do they bring a second shooter? Do they provide a high resolution picture/film CD? Do they offer printing through them? Do they like to work alongside a videographer? Do they correct their photos? How many pictures (corrected or not) will you walk away with? Do they take requests? Would they be willing to tour the wedding site beforehand to familiarize themselves? Would they shoot your rehearsal dinner as well? These are all great questions to consider asking your potential photographer/videographer. </div>
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2) <i><b>Consider experienced connections or "friends of friends." </b></i>Our wedding photographer was someone that I worked at camp with years ago and kept tabs on her photography over the years. I always loved her stuff and planned to ask her to be our photographer when the time came. She had schooling for photography paired with years of experience and raw talent. What worked in my favor financially was that she hadn't established an actual business at that point, so it was much cheaper than a "professional photographer." So I got greatness for a budget. Granted, that won't happen in every situation. But keep your eyes peeled for or ask friends if they might know a skilled someone that takes photos or shoots video as a hobby rather than a profession.</div>
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3) <i><b>Go local if you can. </b></i>Some people have a long-distance friend or favorite photographer that they are willing to pay to fly in to shoot their wedding. But if there is no such person for you, GO LOCAL. Or at least as local as you can. If they're local, you won't have to pay for the hotel, the travel expenses, etc. It's one way to clip the extra expense. </div>
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4) <i><b>Consider how long you'll need them. </b></i>For me, I wanted the photographer for the entire day. Marisa spent the morning with myself and the bridesmaids, while her second shooter captured the morning with the guys. They both stayed until Andrew and I left--so we have every possible highlight and detail captured on camera. We couldn't afford to have Kent and his fiance there the entire day, so we went with 6 hours which captured our first look all the way to the sparkler exit. We only missed out on the "getting ready" part. Ultimately I would have loved to have them there longer, but it was something that I couldn't expend. Some will opt to hire just for the ceremony. Think through what you want to be captured on your day and compare that to their price chart. It's all by the hour. </div>
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5) <i><b>Make sure their style matches yours. </b></i>Ultimately, the photographer/videographer will capture the sort of things that are important to you. But remember that they are an artist with a particular bent. They've worked to find their niche in that industry, that's what they specialize in, and that's what their product will take on--customized to your chosen poses and requests. </div>
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6) <b><i>Schooling doesn't necessarily matter. </i></b>Just because someone graduated with a degree in the arts, doesn't mean they're great. The arts are something that everyone can be involved in to a certain degree. But those who can make a living off of the arts are those that truly love what they do, have a natural knack or talent, and that "eye" that catches things that others don't. It's important to find someone that lights up and loves to talk about their job. The more they enjoy and care about what they're doing, the better your product will be. </div>
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1) <i><b>Do your research. </b></i>You're not the photographer/videographer, but it wouldn't hurt to do some research on "how to pose" or best time of the day to shoot. Most photographers will help you on how to stand or pose--especially if you ask them to. But it helps if you already have a working knowledge on what works. Here's a link to some tips on posing--it'll be good to keep in mind as you're showing off your special dress.</div>
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2) <i><b>Make an idea board. </b></i>Pinterest or otherwise, look through what others have done for their weddings. Make note of what you like and compile that into your arsenal of ideas. It's helps to have a visual to convey to your photographer of what you like/don't like. <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/thecrumbster/august-3rd-photography/" target="_blank">Here's a link to my photography Pinterest board.</a></div>
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3) <b><i>Make a detailed list. </i></b>This is oh-so important. A good photographer/videographer will ask you what matters to you to most--what is a must-have in your pictures/film. Prepare for that question by setting some time aside to compile your idea board and your wedding schedule into one, "must-have" list. After our wedding, there were some things that weren't captured that I wish would have been. But it wasn't anyone's fault but mine, because I failed to communicate that I wanted that. I did cover the main parts, as most do--but don't feel weird asking for pictures of favors, specific ring pictures, specific candids OR even the style of that picture (where it's taken,certain props, or whom with). Most photographers or videographers aren't telepathic--so don't assume they'll "just know" what you want in the moment. <b>Be very specific and communicate</b>. Here's a link to a photography checklist, you can add to or subtract from it--use it as a springboard for ideas and customize it to fit your needs:</div>
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4) <b><i>Schedule a time to meet-up. </i></b>Most photographers/videographers will initiate a meeting with you at some point or have a survey for you to complete as a means of communicating wishes and desires. I highly recommend making the time to meet up with them in person so that you can easily communicate what you're looking for and touch base on things. This typically happens a month out from the wedding. </div>
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You can always go the traditional route and leave out disposable cameras to get candids from your guests. But if you don't want to spend the money on extra cameras, create your personal wedding hashtag and ask people to "Instagram" your wedding. </div>
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Not everyone can do that, but you'll have your avid, smartphone users raring to go. Once you get back you can search your hash-tag, download the pictures or have them printed into magnets, etc. They will probably turn out better than a disposable, with all of the effects of Instagram and clarity of a smartphone. </div>
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I made sure to advertise this everywhere that I could--on the main reception sign (above), a sign on the greeter's table (where the programs/flags) were handed out, in the programs, as well as mentioned by the DJ. </div>
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Also, using either a rented or makeshift photo-booth will not only capture pictures of all of (most of) your guests, but be a fun activity for your guests. We had so many great comments about our photo booth--people loved the opportunity to dress up and make silly faces. We'll talk more about these things later when we get to the DIY's. </div>
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I stand by whatever you decide in the end, but now you know why I consider photography and videography an important investment. Mission accomplished. </div>
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I didn't want to make this post any longer, so <a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2014/03/diy-wedding-9-why-we-chose-first-look.html" target="_blank">I wrote a second post on "Why I chose a First-Look.</a>" Yes, the ever controversial topic. Go here to read my thoughts on the topic. </div>
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And just in case you were wondering, here's some links to the great works of our photographer, Marisa, and videographers, Kent & Ashleigh. </div>
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<li><a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2013/08/highlights-from-august-3rd.html" target="_blank">Our Wedding Highlights shot by Marisa with second shooter--Kate.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://marisaalbrecht.tumblr.com/" target="_blank">Marisa's Tumblr.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://whistleandpine.vsco.co/" target="_blank">Marisa's Website. </a></li>
<li><a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2013/10/when-i-said-yes.html#more" target="_blank">Our Engagement shoot with Kent, October, 2012.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2013/10/wedding-film.html" target="_blank">Our Wedding video by Kent & Ashleigh, August 3, 2013.</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.kentmastexposed.com/" target="_blank">Kent's Website/Blog. </a></li>
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Next week, REGISTRY! I'll be sharing the helpful tips that I learned when registering paired with the best places to go. Who doesn't love to talk about shopping? See you then!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-23732220643735263192014-03-13T14:31:00.001-07:002014-03-19T15:09:51.384-07:00My new favorite!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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To my thrifting and penny-pinching, friends!<br />
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I'm writing today to share with you the wonderful news that is Thred UP. If you haven't heard of it before, prepare to have your mind blown. <br />
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This blog is all about doing what you can with what you have--so in my mind, this applies to all things budget-minded and thrifty. Being a married, college-student puts me smack dab in the middle of that description. When things are tight, bills come first and clothes shopping is out of the question. At those times I just veer away from window shopping because I get inspired, then tempted. <br />
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But may I present the resolution to that problem *hallelujah chorus*.<br />
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But enough of the praises, I need to explain why it's so great so you join my choral.<br />
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ThredUP could be called an online, designer, thrift store. When I say <i>designer</i>, I mean they exclude brands like Faded Glory. They DO include everything from Old Navy to Banana Republic to Anna Fontaine (I'm not sure who that is, but she's expensive). They get clothes from consignment--people cleaning closets, and sell it for a very affordable price. I've found several <b>cute shirts for $3.50</b>.<br />
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What's more, they're really picky about what they take--so you can guarantee that the clothes are like new, if not, still possessing tags. And to top it all off, the shipping is darn cheap. Like<b> $2.99 </b>cheap (depending on the size of your order). <br />
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ThredUP is always updating their inventory, so there are always new pieces to be discovered. Once you make your own profile, you can save your preferred size, brands, and even the price range so you can always skip the nonsense and get to the good stuff. <br />
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Now that's great! Who wouldn't want to go to straight to this online, thrifting, treasure trove of heaven? Well, if you're like me on a tight budget...<br />
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1) You can go straight through my link<span style="color: orange;"> <a href="http://www.thredup.com/r/Z5MIWJ" target="_blank">http://www.thredup.com/r/Z5MIWJ </a></span>and shop it up! In using my link, you'll get $10 to use on your first purchase--no minimum required. You can get a couple items for that $10--money stretches far there.<br />
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<b>Now here is what's nifty...</b>if you go through my link and spend your free money on me, then <i>I get $10 of my own to spend, credited to my account. </i>So imagine the possibilities if you were to share <b>your link</b> with your friends & family who spend their free money--crediting those $10 to your account? <i>More free money.</i> Everybody get's free money! And the beautiful thing is, it can only be spend on clothes! <br />
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2) If you've run out of your free money and are waiting for more to come in, consider your closet another option. We've all heard about cleaning out the closet and simplifying. So <a href="http://www.thredup.com/bags/info" target="_blank">order a clean-out bag</a> from ThredUP and stuff all of those hardly worn, forgotten clothes that don't fit anymore or suit your style. Sell what you don't need to ThredUP, you can cash out or exchange for "new" old clothes. </div>
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Trust me, I'm not one for "too-good-to-be-true schemes," receiving incessant e-mails from a store, or hounding people for money. I wouldn't lead you astray--this is worth your time! I think you'll fall in </div>
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Welcome to the start of another week and a new "DIY Wedding" post! This week we're going to get a bit more hands-on and discuss the paper goods that you'll send to your guests. This was something that I cared a lot about, probably more than I should have. But I'm a designer at heart and I wanted our Save-the-Dates and Invites to display who we were and a sneak peak at our wedding's style.<br />
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On one hand, don't break a sweat over these because the people who really want to come will not base their RSVP on your chosen design of invitation, and in the end, unless it's your Mother or Grandma--it will probably end it's journey in the trash.<br />
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<a name='more'></a>But on the other hand, the hand that compelled me the most, is that this small piece of paper is the first interaction that your guest has with your wedding. It makes them feel special to be included and receive something in the mail. It will land a spot on their fridge or bulletin board for a month or so--where all eyes will see it. And it shows how much you cared about making your guest feel welcome by the effort that you put into it. It shows.<br />
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Now, like I said, there has to be a balance--you can't throw all of your time and money at this project. And you may not even care very much about this particular aspect and that's fine. That's why I'm going to discuss several ways that you can give an expensive looking, "I care about you coming" invite that is low-stress & low-budget. It can be done!<br />
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Save the Date's are only critical when you are hosting a destination wedding or getting hitched over a holiday. In this case, it would be much harder to adjust your schedule when
you have to buy a plane ticket or skip Aunt Jo's Christmas party. The whole point is to give your guests plenty of time to make plans to be there and it doesn't hurt to be the first to claim that date. A lot of people feel compelled to keep their original arrangements when they have to choose between events--an easier way to decide is just by determining who asked first.<br />
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I chose to send a Save-the-Date because several guests would have to travel long-distance and it was scheduled in August, prime time for vacations. It probably wasn't a necessity, but I wanted to make sure that the word was out before someone scheduled a beach house over the same weekend. </div>
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You can always send Save the Date's just for fun, but this would most likely be a waste of time and money when it might be better to invest in making better invitations. </div>
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<i>the Anatomy of an Invitation</i><br />
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There are a few key parts to a good invite--all things that are essential for your guests to know.</div>
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Obviously there's the main invitation and RSVP, which is covered extensively in the next two sections. However there are some other pieces, of which you should choose at least one, to include in this packet.</div>
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1) <b>Reception Cards</b>: if the reception is held at a separate location, it might be beneficial to include a card with the location, time, and address.<br />
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2) <b>Directions & Maps</b>: I've included a few ideas for these towards the bottom of this post. It's helpful if you want to provide a visual for the guests--especially if it's a difficult location to find or get to.<br />
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3) <b>Accommodation Cards</b>: includes the pertinent information to the area such as hotels, restaurants, rental agencies, etc. Especially important if you're having a destination wedding or for guests that have to travel long distance and book a hotel.<br />
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4) <b>Web Site:</b> a small card showcasing the link to your wedding website. I prefer this route because all of our pertinent information could be found online in one spot rather than a huge envelope of papers. I did consider a few of the older people that might not be as tech savvy and made sure that they connected with someone who was or received the information that they needed.<br />
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5)<strike> <b>Registry Card</b></strike>. Personally, I'm against sending invitations with a registry card included. It's an old standard of politeness, but I think it remains appropriate. Sending one of those business cards for Bed, Bath, & Beyond or "we registered here!" sends the message that you only care about one thing when it comes to your wedding--the gifts. It was a goal of mine to make the guests feels welcomed and wanted, I wanted them to know that I wanted them there on my wedding day as a friend or relative, not for what they might offer me.<br />
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<i>For me...</i>I chose an invitation, a detailed RSVP, and a small card with our wedding website link.<br />
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<i>What should I include in my RSVP?</i></div>
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Think of it this way, the RSVP holds all of the information that you need from your guest in regards to their attendance of your wedding. Sometimes this is very simple with either a "yes" or "no," other times, you need to know their food preference and favorite song. Determine what you need to know for your situation and go from there.<br />
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<i>For me</i>...I wanted to make it super simple so that all my guest had to do was put a check mark on it and put it in the mailbox. I hoped that would alleviate the frustration of having late replies--they still come, but it's minimal. The RSVP included the following:</div>
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2) A sentence that asked the guests to "leave room for our dessert reception in the barn immediately following the ceremony." Informing them of the location, the time, and that there would not be dinner but dessert! Important!</div>
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3) "Would you kindly RSVP within 4 weeks..."</div>
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4) On the front, it was addressed to and from, with a stamp. Like I said, easy peasy.<br />
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5) If you don't want to write each address or name twice on the envelope and RSVP's--create an excel document that numbers each guest. Write that number in a corner on the RSVP. That way, if they don't include pertinent information like their name--you know who to blame. ;)</div>
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You have to decide a theme, and typically this generates from your already chosen wedding theme. To match my rustic-vintage wedding, I sent out chalkboard style Save the Date Postcards and simplistic, kraft paper with "lace" Invitations. That's right, they weren't cut from the same cloth! I'm one of those that will try to add as many fonts as possible to a design because I can't decide which I like best. In the same way, I couldn't determine between chalkboard and kraft paper--so we went with both. Some people prefer the rhythmic feel of similitude, and that's fine--it's probably easiest to do so. Either way, the Save the Date is generally sent out 5-8 months prior to a wedding while the Invite isn't stamped until 6 weeks before--there's a large window, so perfectly matching isn't necessary.<br />
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I found it really helpful to make a Pinterest board for all of my ideas. That way I could compile my thoughts in one place and then later, with fresh eyes, decide which one really caught my attention. You can find my Invites&Save the Dates Pinterest board here! <br />
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Let's face it, buying your invites professionally is highway robbery, but your options at bargain stores like Ollies might be limited. Granted you might be the exception and find something great at either one, but I've found that the best way to not compromise on having great looking invites and keeping out of debt is either through: <i>DIY or Free Printables. </i>With a style in mind and some ideas floating around, let me share with you some of my favorite ideas for giving out great Save the Dates & Invites on a tight budget</div>
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No matter how you look at it, DIY is going to be one of your cheapest but most time consuming options. It depends on how you've budgeted your time and money, but I found that DIY'ing my invites was very fun & rewarding with my bestie & fiance helping in the process.<br />
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If you're knowledgeable with Photoshop or have a willing friend, this is a great way to make your own printable invitations. There are tons of free fonts & graphics out there to make it look professional--you just need some time and creativity.<br />
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If you don't have Photoshop would be a program like <a href="http://www.mixbook.com/" target="_blank">Mixbook</a>. You can create your own card or postcard using their graphic and fonts, they will do all of the printing for you--and it looks amazing. But beware, this can be pretty expensive with shipping and printing. In my research it ends up costing the same as having cards printed professionally, but you get your own personal touch.<br />
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If you're going for the photo look and don't have a large amount to spend on this, Snapfish, Walmart, anything with a photo center will offer super cheap prints that fit your bill. They may not have the most variety or best quality, but it does the job well.<br />
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My favorite variation of a simplistic, photographic, typographic invitation is this:</div>
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A lot of couples will have a "wedding date" picture taken during their engagement photos, that would be an easy way to implement your information into a simple, photo design.<br />
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Another easy and cute option! Printing off your invitations then layering a paper doily underneath with twine or ribbon to finish.<br />
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Another option for the map part to make it more "classy." Print on vellum rather than card-stock.<br />
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Meeting that free font fetish with this style of Save the Date. The slim size would make it really easy to print several on one page. More bang for your buck!<br />
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I absolutely love this if you have the time! Similar to what I did for my ceremony programs, this would include: two pieces of card-stock for the cover, a photo pasted to the back cover, and unless you have an incredible embossing or cutting machine, there's vellum! Layer those together and make a running stitch with your sewing machine up the side. </div>
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This is probably your best bet if you have limited time and funds. There are several FREE prints out there for you to scour, grab, and send to your printer. Here are some of my favorites:<br />
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<span style="text-align: left;">I wasn't reselling anything, so I sent these pictures to Jacqueline, over at Raindrop's on Roses, and she drew her own version of these pictures for me, complete with personal touches for Andrew and I. This was the final product. She sent me the hard copy so I could have them printed. I was originally planning to scan these and have them printed through <a href="http://gotprint.net/g/welcome.do" target="_blank">GotPrint</a>. It would have been much easier to meet the measurement standards were I working within Photoshop--and I highly recommend printing through them if you are! Great print quality and great prices. </span><br />
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I purchased our envelopes through <a href="http://www.envelopemall.com/?gclid=CNbJ2srtiL0CFckWMgodlH8AxA" target="_blank">Envelope Mall</a> online. It sounds sketchy, but it's cheap and they work! I found some large, Kraft brown envelopes to match my theme at a great price. And used a white pen (also from the craft store!) to write the addresses on the front.</div>
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As far as stamps go, it would be nice to have themed, personalized stamps--but in my opinion, it's a waste of money. I chose the neutral, somewhat vintage fruit stamps--and when I ran out and was at the end of my wits, I used the American flag stamps that were sitting around from before. Not so pretty, but it worked, and nobody is looking at that anyway. </div>
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This is a shout-out to the tools that I wish I had when I was addressing each invitation by hand. Trust me, it's an investment!<br />
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This nifty tool embosses your address on the tab of the envelope. Forget hand cramps, just punch and go. It's only $24, and it would be money well spent--said from the girl and mother who hand wrote each address and return address for over 200 invitations. Keep your sanity and get the embosser.<br />
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Last week was quite the extensive post on "the dress." Tips for all those little accessory details, hair styles, and a reminder to remain sane--<a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2014/02/diy-wedding-5-dress.html" target="_blank">you can read it here</a>. But this week, it's time to stop thinking about yourself and consider your groom. He's the man that you can't wait to sleep next to, the man that makes you laugh, knows all of your quirks and passions, and has made such an impression in your life that you can't imagine living without. He is the man that is offering to share his last name, adventure through life together, and promising to care and provide for only you, with an expensive ring as a token.<br />
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All that to say, he's a pretty important figure and the wedding would still be a day dream without him making it a reality. But before I jump into suits and guy stuff, I want to throw this thought out there.<br />
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It may not always be the case and kudos to you if it's not. But generally speaking, what I've noticed is that there is a great big fuss over everything that the bride is or does and the groom is caught in the middle with little to no consideration. There is a reason that you've chosen to marry that ONE, specific man--and he too, deserves to feel special and loved on his wedding day. Yes, that's right. It's HIS wedding day, too. It would be nice if the "wedding day is all about the bride" slogan would just go away--it's truly a poor picture of marriage and the purpose of the wedding in the first place. But we've already discussed that. Water under the bridge.<br />
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Take it upon yourself to be selfless with the planning and let the groom be as involved as he wants to be. Don't expect him to care about every detail--consider that a good thing, it gives you full reign. But DO take time to ask for his thoughts and know what he would wish to be involved in. What he does choose to care about, you should find the time to care about it, too. After all, you're not marrying yourself--and this is a great reality check for those about to embark into married land. The rest of your life will a learning process on "how to mesh two lives into one."<br />
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I've found in several conversations with my newlywed friends that each groom was different in the things that he thought important or imperative. Some grooms completely trust their bride and want them to pick everything out for them, others want to be extremely involved, and Andrew, chose a few things that he was concerned with and let me inform of the rest.<br />
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It sort of surprised me which things were important to Drew, but I chose to respect those wishes and I'll never regret that. He had a lot of good insight or reminded me of things that I simply forgot.<br />
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He cared a lot about his suit--he wanted a nice one that he could wear again and he wanted to look "gooooood" or so I was told. He also cared a lot about when the pictures were taken--he didn't want our guests to have to wait around for us after the ceremony, the party needed to get started! He cared about the song that we danced to. He cared about the song that we were announced to (I struggled with that, because his choices didn't match my cutesy, coffee-shop vibe that I was going for. But I'm glad that I realized it was OUR wedding and that the mixture of the two genres would truly represent our personalities together). That left a lot of things that he didn't really care about as far as making decisions go, so I felt it important to honor the things he really wanted.<br />
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Like I said, Andrew cared a LOT about his suit. He wanted to look fine on his wedding day. And to this day, whenever he sees a picture of our wedding, he says, "I looked gooooood!" I'm so glad that he was able to feel that way for our wedding--I wanted to feel beautiful, he should feel handsome. </div>
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We were long-distance at the time of engagement, so we planned to visit Jos. A. Bank during one of our visits. If we would have had more time, we would've done more shopping--Men's Warehouse, JC Penney, etc. But we knew that Jos. A. Bank would have what we needed and offer a discount. I had already picked out a certain color/style palette for him to follow in regards to the theme and colors. But everything else was on him. </div>
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We went for a light, summer suit--linen or something similar. Something he wouldn't roast in, but still nice enough to wear later. It's hard to remember the exact colors, they can all look the same in the store--so I recommend taking a picture or color palette with you to compare. </div>
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The nice thing is that at stores like that, they take care of you. They point you in the right direction, do all of the measuring and tweaking for you--once you've found the one, you sign the slip, and pick it up later. Done.</div>
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Like I mentioned, suit stores will offer great discounts or deals if you buy more than one suit there--that's if you're looking to dress your wedding party in one spot or with a similar style. We didn't do this, but we still got a great discount on it from a sale or something like that. </div>
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We loved Jos. A. Bank--they produce nice stuff, but it's probably not the cheapest route. We looked at it as an investment in his wardrobe. But if you can't spare the expense, I recommend trying Men's Warehouse or JC Penney or like stores. They still do the measuring and tweaking, but without the high dollar amount.</div>
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I got Drew's shirt at JC Penney on sale for $15. I wanted an off-white shirt, which is slightly more difficult as opposed to pure white. But with some time, I secured the off-white shirt for a great price. Granted, it wasn't the "nicest" dress shirt for that price--but who's nit-picking that?<br />
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I purchased the suspenders through Amazon for roughly $5 a set. You can go fancier, with real leather and such. But I knew my guys weren't huge on suspenders in every day life--so I just bought something that matched for cheap, something that would get them through the wedding.<br />
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I got his tie on Amazon--a really nice, soft, peach tie to complement the guys mint accessories. But there are other alternatives--like I mentioned in the <a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2014/02/diy-wedding-4-what-to-wear.html" target="_blank">wedding party post</a>. Part of our gift for the guys were their ties and bow-ties. I would pick one up as I found them in the clearance bin in JC Penney or on Amazon. They were all mismatching, so it was bit more time consuming for me--but allowed me to save money by finding each one over time. I recommend JC Penney, Etsy, Amazon, or even the thrift store if it suits your style. </div>
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Andrew's socks were part of the set of "crazy" socks that I got for the guys on clearance at H&M. Who doesn't love that store? I printed off a simple quote on card stock and made a band around his socks, which said, "so that you don't get cold feet." He found them when they arrived to get ready for the wedding. Cliche, maybe. But it's the little things. </div>
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Of course, be creative and come up with something fun to surprise your man--you know him best and what makes him tick. I love to give little gifts or surprise notes, it makes me feel like I'm actively loving Andrew even though he already knows that I do. I'll talk about my wedding gift in another post.</div>
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Make sure that your man makes a timely appointment to get his hair cut before the wedding and cleans up the beard or shaves altogether. I had a coupon for a salon in SC that I would never use, so he got to have a pro hair cut and facial "buffing" or whatever they do. Not all men like that, I was surprised that Andrew did--but it's ok for them to get extra cleaned up for their day, too.<br />
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Along with that, it's ok for him to do a bit of the ceremonial "beauty routine" that brides take part in. I mean things like, whitening his teeth and exfoliating his skin. I had a coupon via a store or wedding site--most likely Target from registering there, for a bride and groom special on Crest Whitening Strips, in addition to the mail-in rebate on the box, I got the really good kind for under half the price.</div>
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Next week, we'll be diving into the abyss that is Invitations & Save the Dates! It's a big topic, but we'll break it down and make it fun! Looking forward to it!<br />
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But this post isn't about reiterating that, instead I want to bounce off of that into ways that we can de-stress in the midst of hard things. I may not be an expert, but I am an independent, go-getter (AKA control freak) that goes and gets herself in over her head at times. I may be able to do five things at once, but I can't control my life. When I try, or things fall apart at the seams, I get stressed.<br />
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I've come up with some theories, not facts or steps that you must take--I'm no counselor. But I do know what things help me when I'm at my worst. I think I'm not the only one, so maybe these ideas will be to help you.<br />
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1) <i>Get in the Word</i>. You can do just about every trick in the book, but nothing will quite work in the way that God can in your life. My natural, human instinct is to turn to other outlets--I crave and am drawn to that. While those may be good things, reading the Bible should be a foundational priority. In truly reading God's words, allowing them to convict and change my life, I begin to be more like Christ--in action and perspective. If I know God more through his word, then I can better understand why things happen the way they do or be able to cope with them better. There is a noticeable difference in the days that I do start off with devotions vs. the days that I skip. <i> </i><br />
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2)<i> Pray. More</i>.This is something that I need to work on and grow in my life. Praying reflects humility. Humility reflects need, submission, and recognition of who I am in light of who God is. It's one thing to do devotions and it's another to spend time in prayer. When I am the most stressed, the most "down and out," I struggle to pray. I can read the Bible just fine--looking for encouragement and even rebuke. But to pray, to bear my soul to the all-knowing Creator--it can intimidate me when I know I am in the wrong. This is of course a false view, God is not waiting to reprimand me--He is always quick to forgive, He already has. But at that time, when my mind is a mess, that is truly how I feel. But at that time, that is when I need to pray the most. Not just for forgiveness, but for help, for growth, for guidance. And God will be faithful to respond with the things that you need to glorify Him.<i> </i><br />
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3)<i> Take a step back and look at the BIG picture</i>. When I am in God's word, praying faithfully, I begin to see the bigger picture. When I am not, I tend to focus on only the things that are surrounding me. It's hard to imagine with that perspective, that there could be any other life than what I see--and so I succumb to it. Looking beyond my little box of the world helps me to see the ways that God works, the bigger task at hand, the reason to live at all. Did you know that God uses those hard times to grow you into a closer resemblance of Him, drawing you nearer to Him? The fact is, life isn't as bad as I can make it out to be with a narrow view. Don't lock yourself into your closet, go out and become involved in what God is actively doing. It's tempting to stay in and throw that pity-party--it feels good! But after a time, it only leads to greater stress and depression. We were not created for that<i>.</i><br />
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4) <i>Realize your real purpose in life--the higher calling.</i> The fact is, life is not all about me. It may seem harsh, but it's true. God, the Creator of the Universe, did not create me to go about doing the mundane things that I set my mind to. Yes, the dishes and laundry are important--and in doing them, I reflect faithfulness. But, my point is that with that bigger picture, there is a motive, a heart attitude about the things that you do and how you do them. As believers, we are called to glorify God in ALL that we say and do. Whether the little things or the bigger things. Why do you do what you do? If I am faithful, pursuing a greater walk with God--he will give me a love for the things he loves, instill accurate priorities, and help me to focus on things that this world cannot offer. We have to lose the weight, the desire for this world that is naturally within us. That is something that only God can work within you<i>.</i><br />
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5) <i>Forgive and forget.</i> In the midst of a stressful situation, it's so easy to become bitter and angry at the way that things are or how people act. I should know--this is a particular struggle for me. I found that I tend to cling to the bitterness because it makes me feel justified in my reactions, but over time, it roots itself in my heart making me judgmental, unkind, unloving, frustrated, and depressed. It's a rut. I soon realized that the only way out, was to truly forgive and forget. Even if those people aren't sorry or forgiving--or they may not even know you feel this way--it's important for you to do your part and relieve the weight of that situation from your heart. It helps me to remember that I am in no place to hold judgment or withhold forgiveness--Christ died for my sins and forgave me in a way that no one else could, giving me eternal life that I didn't deserve! How could I not forgive others in light of that? Remember that God created them, too! They are "image-bearers" of Christ--regardless of their actions, they were made in His image and are sinners just like you. Seek the good in people rather than the bad. Free yourself from your bitterness and forgive--let that unnecessary burden go, it's only baggage that will weigh you down as you press on towards Christ<i>.</i><br />
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6) <i>Focus on others.</i> One of the best ways to forget about your problems and relieve your stress is to focus on other people, then you can't even look at yourself. Find ways to help a friend, listen to their problems instead of vent your own, take your spouse on a date, treat them to something special, surprise them by doing the dishes for them, spend time in prayer for them rather than yourself. Giving of yourself to others helps to hone in on the bigger picture, glorifying God in serving others. It instills a perspective that is others-focused rather than self-focused. And if you're like me, there isn't much to look at when you're looking down.<br />
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7) <i>Be thankful.</i> Cultivating a thankful heart and mindset helps us to remember the good things, the things that God has blessed us with and how He has always provided before. It's easy to compare and think of what we want and don't have. I make life a lot more complicated than it needs to be--instead of being thankful for shelter, it has to be a beautifully decorated mansion. Instead of being thankful for clothing, it has to be designer. Instead of being thankful for the 15yr old Buick, it has to be a new truck. You catch my drift. The point is, we don't need all of that to successfully glorify God. I stress myself out when I demand and push myself to gain those things. It's good to be actively thankful in keeping a "Works of God" journal, or writing it on a board where you and your family will regularly see it, or even the "thankful tree" that people whip out around Thanksgiving. Come up with a creative way to remind yourself of what you've been given. It will inspire you to use those things. It helps us to know that not all is bad, and that even the bad is for a purpose. Below is one of my favorite short films for reminding me of what I can be thankful for.<br />
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8) <i>Stop cleaning and take a bath</i>! One of the things that I as a woman am driven to do--is clean. I'll admit, I'm a bit OCD about it. I love to know that my house is clean, and then when all of the crumbs are swept and the counters wiped, then I can rest. I love for things to be clean so that my house looks more appealing to me--that's when I can see all of my decorations and know that things are where they are meant to be. But if I let this to go to an extreme, ya know those days when things have been slipping and haven't been cleaned in a while and you go on a rampage to resurrect your clean home, that's when my stress seeps into other people's lives and makes everything miserable. If it's not bad enough that I'm stressed, try everyone being stressed at the same time. It's good for me to remember that the house doesn't have to be spotless all the time--I would drive myself insane trying to keep it that way. Instead, I need to do what I can to keep it hygiene friendly and pretty, and then let it go. I shouldn't lose sleep over it, and certainly not a hot bath.<br />
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9) <i>Go for a walk</i>. Sometimes I just need time to myself. Time to think things through in one breather. When the weather's nice, it's good to take a quiet walk alone--enjoy the scenery and absorb some Vitamin D--it's scientifically proven to help! When the weather isn't nice, there is always a good corner table in a coffee shop.<br />
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11) <i>Implement purposeful things.</i> Much like the Works of God journal, I strive to implement things into my decor that helps me to refocus and even smile. Flowers, even fake, make an windowless office seem less depressing and the chalkboard in my living room showcases scripture whenever I look at it. Those small things all help, even subconsciously.<br />
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12) <i>Workout or even better, Yoga!</i> I always feel so much better after a workout. Prior to a workout, I can justify mostly every reason to not workout based on what I need to get done that day. Consider a healthy benefit to schedule an hour for working out or stretching out with some Yoga. It's get the endorphins flowing, making you naturally feel better and more energetic. I always feel accomplished that I got to the gym and did something to stay fit.<br />
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13) <i>Plan a small get-away</i>. I say small because vacations in themselves can almost be more stressful than relaxing. A small get-away shouldn't involve a lot of planning, just jumping in the car for a day with a destination and some cash. Be spontaneous--it doesn't allow time for stress.<br />
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14) <i>Treat yourself.</i> I know that I've been pushing the "it's not about you" thing. And while that's true, it doesn't run yourself into the ground because you never take time to care for yourself. You're actually helping yourself by doing so. When I'm rejuvenated, I'm a lot friendlier, more optimistic, I care more, and I do better work--because I have more of myself to give. So go out and treat yourself to something special--not all the time, but once in a while when you need it, eat the triple-stacked ice cream cone, buy the pretty shoes, or see that movie you've been dying to see.<br />
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15) <i>Find a friend who will listen</i>. It's good to learn to be a listener, if you're not already. I'm a talker, and I strive to be more of a listener. In my opinion, I am typically more blessed by a listener rather than a talker. So be that person. But every now and again, it's good to have someone that you can trust that is willing to listen. Whenever I'm really stressed and caught up in my mind, I know the answers, but I need to talk it all out to someone (without interruption to correct me) to relieve my brain from harboring it all. Then that person can help me sort out what matters and what doesn't. Things go back into the brain organized and easier to process.<br />
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16) <i>Stop thinking.</i> My mind, maybe it's the spaghetti brain of a woman, can get overworked
fast when I'm trying to multi-task and I begin to forget things or get
overwhelmed by the amount of things in my brain. I'm afraid to stop thinking about them because I'm afraid I'll forget it all until I get the pen or to the next morning. However, I torment myself by constantly mulling over every thought. Have you ever looked at something so long that you can't even figure it out anymore? That's what I'm talking about. For me, I have to write it down or type it out, so that I can know it's jotted down for later and I can let my mind rest for the time being.<br />
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17) <i>Drink more tea.</i> In doing some research, I discovered that green tea--through it's Amino Acids, promotes relaxation. In fact there are several foods and drinks that do the same thing. Put some good food into your body to relieve the cravings and naturally relax yourself.<br />
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18) <i>Stop holding yourself to your own standards.</i> We should all have standards, don't get me wrong. But I have a tendency to be a perfectionist which kills me because I'm NOT PERFECT. I am continually learning that it's OK to not have a perfect everything and be a perfect someone. In fact, being imperfect is inspiring to me--because that's relatable, it's where we all are.<br />
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19) <i>Be more like your man.</i> Guys have a wonderful ability to think on one thing at a time. Most times I like that I can think through a million things in 5 seconds and put related concepts together--but guys don't get as stressed as woman for that reason. It can be overwhelming, in the mind of a woman. I'm learning to set my mind to one task at a time, not thinking of the 5 other things I should be doing while half-hardheartedly doing what's in front of me. Andrew is great at helping me to prioritize and focus.<br />
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20) <i>Take Melatonin.</i> My greatest battle is at night, when I begin to realize that everything that I did that day did not even put a dent in my to-do list--it can be depressing and overwhelming, right when I really need to sleep. Like I said before, it helps me to write everything down before I sleep. I get frequent migraines (from stress and physical problems), so I often sleep on a timed heating pad within my pillow--which helps the muscles in my head to relax. When I remember, I use my B&BW pillow spray to make things smell good and relaxing. And sometimes, my husband is merciful in giving my a back rub with essential oils to work out the stress kinks. But my favorite, is Melatonin. One hour before bed, I pop the pill, and an hour later, my brain is shutting down so that I can go to sleep in a restful way.<br />
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21) <i>Lighten the load</i>. One thing that I have been learning the hard way is to SAY NO. I've always worked well with a full plate--but I'm learning that I don't have to be stressed and pulled in every direction to fulfill my lifetime "quota." I've always instinctively felt that if I say no to something, I'm failing because I can't juggle it all or I'll miss out on an opportunity. That's where the priorities come in--I have to learn what's truly important and what isn't. For instance, if a side-job comes up but threatens limited time with my husband or late nights to accomplish all of my other necessary tasks--then it's probably a no-go.<br />
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22) <i>Stop comparing</i>. I didn't initially add this, but my Mom left a comment on here that was spot on and it's important to note. A lot of to-do's and stress comes from comparison, the pressure to live up to everyone else's & society's standards. But the thing is, God made you who you are. Be proud of that, and live to the fullest of YOUR potential.<br />
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23) <i>Throw away the list.</i> The fact is, sometimes the list just isn't as important as other things. Sometimes the house is a wreck, sometimes we have to eat cereal for dinner, and sometimes we just have to stop and spend time with the people we love instead of accomplishing everything else. The point is, the dishes and laundry--they need to be done, but they have low priority in comparison to people and memories. My husband could care less if the laundry is folded or if the dishes are put away--but he definitely cares about whether or not I have time to snuggle on the couch or just listen to him talk about his day. The house and every material thing in it will not matter in eternity--it will be the farthest thing from our minds. But people--they matter. It would be unfortunate if I were to turn down an opportunity to encourage or spend time with a friend because of a dish.<br />
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Hope that helps! Leave some comments to share your ideas for de-stressing! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-79739771543305232162014-02-24T21:01:00.004-08:002014-03-03T14:05:51.584-08:00DIY Wedding #5: the Dress.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The past few weeks we've been talking about foundational things to consider such as the theme, venue, colors, & bridal party. But now it's time to consider "the dress." You may not need to be reminded, but it's easy to get caught up in the details and forget to take some time for you.<br />
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What every girl dreams about in her wedding schemes, is the dress. I mean THE dress. It isn't just any dress, it's the ONE DAY ONLY dress that you'll say "I do" in and model in your $1,000 pictures. I don't say that to intimidate you, but these are the subconscious feelings that are ingrained in us ladies with the first Disney princess movie that we watch. It's a lot of pressure. How will you ever find that ONE dress?<br />
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I should know. In the beginning, I didn't care a ton about trying on several dresses, visiting various shops to find the "one." I had my eye on a beautiful, vintage dress on Etsy, only $250 including shipping that would customized to my measurements. In my mind, that was checked off. I ordered it pretty quickly after engagement, because I had my mind set on it, it fit my budget, and I knew it would take some time to ship from China. Then the day came when it arrived. I opened the package with bated breath and carefully pulled it out. It truly was beautiful--a bit more elaborate and white than the picture originally revealed, but that was all right by me--I accepted that when I agreed to purchase it from China for $200. As I slipped into it, it fit perfectly. It was a strapless, mermaid that showed off my curves without going overboard, with tiny details and beading sewn into the lace overlay. But there was one problem--my Mom and best friend didn't cry. That was never a requirement for me, but you could tell--it wasn't "the one."<br />
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My heart sunk a little, but I refused to care--this was the one that I had bought, it wasn't in the budget for another and it wasn't bad anyway. Then one day, a month or so later, I happened upon a wedding dress portrait from David's Bridal. I had never really cared for DB because I felt like it was the Walmart of Weddings and all the dresses were relatively the same--NOT the vintage style that I wanted. But this dress, was vastly different--it was simple, not weighed down with heavy beading, but tastefully decorated with some unique touches here and there. Out of curiosity I clicked on the picture and much different from what I was expecting--$2,599--it was only $500. Granted, that was more than I was originally thinking but lower than my Mom had planned on. I closed the link and forgot about it, I already had my dress. But in the next few days, it lingered in my mind. So I showed it to my Mom and told her that this had caught my eye, but I was determined to like the one I had. Now not every girl gets a second chance, but my Mom graciously made an appointment for me and that dress. When I came out--she cried. When I tried it on for my bestie--she cried. It was so good to feel like a bride.<br />
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I tell you all of that because I learned the hard way that it's so important to try stuff on before you make a decision. I heard this advice before and disregarded it because I didn't initially care, but I ended up caring more than I thought. Plus, it just isn't the same special experience if you just order instead of modeling some dresses for your Mom and besties--it doesn't have to be Kleinfeld's for it to be a great or memorable experience. It's hopefully not something that you'll be doing again, so make the most of it and have FUN!<br />
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It's important to not set your mind on one thing until you've
tried it on and bought it. Most chicks have their dress mentally picked
out already, but it leads to disappointment if it doesn't look the same
on you as the model or isn't available anymore. Be open to the
possibilities. Take some picture ideas with you to the appointment and
be sure to be specific about the things that you're looking for like:
ivory, lace, or simple.<br />
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When deciding for the style for your dress--it technically matches the setting of your wedding--if not, so be it--it's your dress, your day, your decision--it wouldn't be a bad one. For me, the simplistic, casual but elegant style fit perfectly for an outdoor, summer wedding. The skirt was light and flowy, so it wasn't too hot or hard to get around in. These are all little details to consider as you're browsing.<br />
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It's also good to consider who you take with you when you go. For me, it was a quick, on the fly trip, so it was just my Mom and sister. In a way that works best because you don't have several opinions to consider. Ask the people that matter most, that care the most, and won't try to push their opinions or live vicariously through you. Opinions are good--you need to hear them out, but too many can make it a miserable experience because you can never please everyone perfectly. It's life. Smaller head count--less opinions.<br />
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Some pro's for David's Bridal (and probably similar stores--though I haven't done any research) is that if you buy your dress at DB there are probably perks and discounts included. Such as $20 off each bridesmaid dress or a discount on MOB dress. Be aware of those helpful hints and do some research before you go.<br />
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In the end, pick a dress that you feel comfortable in, one that makes you feel like a real bride. You'll know it when you see it.<br />
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Once the dress is decided, the hair is the next natural step. The decision often goes hand in hand. I originally wanted a strapless dress because I wanted my hair to be down and curled--the loose, natural look. So I based a lot of my searching on that.<br />
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As for salon vs. doing it yourself. That's up to you and your experience or comfort-ability. Most of my friends are great at doing hair, theirs and others. I didn't want my bridesmaids to be responsible for that, so I asked a good friend, Jami, if she would be willing to help out that morning. We did a test run two weeks before, and then she was able to duplicate fairly quickly the morning of. Then she was available to help the rest of my girls with their hair if they wished.<br />
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Since I told my girls to do whatever they wanted with their hair, it wasn't as though I were requiring them to do a complicated updo on their own. So having an extra hand, or friends to help was all that I really needed for them. If you do want it to be a certain style, I would probably recommend going somewhere, or hiring a few friends to help out. Going to a salon, though expensive, does have it's advantages--it could count as a gift to the girls and it also makes you feel pampered on your big day.<br />
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The veil is not essential to being a bride anymore--in fact, I often prefer a dress without. You have more options: half-up, completely up with flowers, all down with a tiara or flower crown--you name it, somebody has done it and it's on Pinterest. However, in my experience you shouldn't knock the veil just because it's traditional.<br />
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My friend used to work at DB, and she informed that whenever a girl puts on a veil, something magical happens and there isn't a dry eye left in the house. It's the traditional wedding symbol of a bride--transforming a pretty prom dress into a wedding dress. I was set against a veil, but the assistant put one on and my Mom cried even more. What she had said was true--I looked in the mirror and I was the bride.<br />
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That decision had a domino effect--I then decided to have my hair completely up in a loose updo so that I could show off the gorgeous back of my dress and fit the veil.<br />
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I will say to be careful about where you buy your veil or other accessories. When visiting a store like David's, it's easy to accept the accessories that they match with your dress once you're high on finding "the one." Unless you've counted that in to your cost, veils are very expensive--like $100+ expensive--at David's, and I'm assuming like stores. I had one friend that made their own, and another that got theirs off of Amazon or Etsy--something like that. Know that David's does not do returns, so if you later kick yourself for your extended purchases, you're going to have to bite the bullet. So be careful about what you take with you on that day--know that there are other, cheaper options out there and you can always come back for those pieces later.<br />
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This isn't something that I can tell you what to do--but my advice, pick a hairstyle that you'll rarely get the chance to do. I'm not a "spend time in front of the mirror" type of person, so it was nice to be pampered and have my hair twisted and braided in ways that it normally isn't. I'm still a huge fan of the simplistic style however, so if it suits your personality, place a few favorite flowers in your tresses and go.<br />
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If you haven't caught my thought yet, this is all about you and your personality--the dress, the hair, the wedding as a whole will showcase your personality as well as your husbands--who you are as a couple. Go crazy!<br />
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Another thought, for those of us that have men that prefer long hair and yours is currently anything but--some tips for growing it out ASAP.<br />
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<li>Have it trimmed often. Getting rid of the dead ends regularly will greatly lengthen your hair. It may seem counter-productive, but that's the biggest mistake that people make. I had a friend that is a fantastic hairstylist and this was her greatest piece of advice to me as I was growing out my bob.</li>
<li>Keep it healthy! If you style it often, make sure to compensate with quality S/C and protective serums and moisturizers. I splurged and bought the "Sexy Hair" products at Ross or Marshalls for a 1/3 of their normal price. </li>
<li>Try out Coconut Oil--there's a lot of benefits for your hair in doing treatments with this stuff, <a href="http://thenetzfamily.com/2013/08/diy-coconut-oil-hair-mask.html" target="_blank">here's a link to get you started</a>.</li>
<li>Avoid the temptation. You may get desperate and try the <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.org/prenatal-vitamins/expert-answers/faq-20057922" target="_blank">"grow it faster" routine with prenatal vitamin</a>s. But there are proven red flags in doing so--in pregnancy your body requires greater levels of iron, folic acid, and calcium--but not when you're not pregnant or trying. Instead try out <a href="http://voices.yahoo.com/5-most-important-vitamins-fast-hair-growth-6412350.html" target="_blank">Vitamin A, C, E, or Biotin</a>. It wouldn't give you 6 inches in a month, but they will strengthen your hair and grow it in the process.</li>
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Ladies, all of this is fun stuff--when else do you get to dress like a queen? But the accessories...they're the icing on the cake. It is oh so fun to peruse sparkly jewelry and lacy garters<i>. </i>The style of each is purely preference--it's hard to go wrong with your choices.The accessories are a spot in the budget to go cheap without looking cheap. Let me explain.</div>
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With jewelry, there's CZ, feux pearls, even colored beads--they all look nice and include a nice price. Unless this is something that you've really wanted to splurge because you never will again, or someone, like Dad or your fiance, gives you some pieces as a gift--I highly recommend checking out stores like JC Penney for some affordable jewels.</div>
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I was originally going to go with a huge bunch of pearls to complement the strapless dress--it wouldn't be competing with the dress lines. But with the dress I ended up with, I had minimal space to work with and I wanted a simple statement piece that said it all in one. So I chose the necklace that Andrew gave me two years prior when he told me that he loved me for the first time. I knew that out of all the jewelry in the world, it would mean something to him that I picked his. I took my rings and necklace to my bestie who currently worked at a jewelry store to get them cleaned--they were so sparkly and looking new in the end!</div>
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The garter can be a great, easy DIY for you or someone willing. That way you can pick your colors, lace, type of flowers, etc. If you're busy with other things, Etsy is great spot for finding cute, customized garters. I actually didn't bother to buy one because I wasn't doing a garter toss at the reception. However, Jacqueline found out that I didn't have one--I think the night before the wedding. She immediately scrounged up my scrap fabric and needles, insisting that "I had to have one."<br />
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As for the shoes, I wanted to go with the casual, summer wedding theme and chose mint sandals from Charlotte Russe. They were cheap and cute--not my favorite--I preferred the $70 designer ones, but my budget didn't. In the end, I knew that I would kick myself for spending that extra $60 on sandals, and I knew that people wouldn't necessarily be looking at my feet.<br />
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There are a lot of great designer shoes or knock-offs out there at stores such as: DSW, Marshalls, Ross, and even Payless. You'd have to be pretty picky to not find a shoe that you liked at one of those locations.<br />
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Make sure your lipstick "sticks" and doesn't leave marks on your man after the big smooch. I used <a href="http://www.buymebeauty.com/maybelline-superstay-10-hour-stain-gloss.aspx?gclid=CNKJ6pbx5bwCFa47MgodwiMAtA" target="_blank">Maybelline's SuperStay Lip Stain</a> per advice of a newly married friend. It stayed on all day without being gloppy because it temporarily stains your lips instead of coating them. I highly recommend it!<br />
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Treat yourself and invest in GOOD eyeshadow, stuff that doesn't crease or melt off (if it makes you feel better, the expensive stuff lasts forever). My favorite is <a href="http://www.urbandecay.com/on/demandware.store/Sites-UrbanDecay-Site/default/Home-Show?utm_source=GOOGLE&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=Urban%20Decay&utm_campaign=Brand%20-%20EX&gclid=CP76-Obx5bwCFckWMgod_VEANA" target="_blank">Urban Decay</a>--it's expensive, but a year later I haven't even gotten halfway through my $30 tin--it's paid off. Plus, it's good to not skimp on everything and treat yourself to some special items that you wouldn't normally splurge on.<br />
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Educate yourself on ways to apply make-up if you haven't already and find a good facial routine to follow. There are lots of healthy, natural, easy ideas out there--check out my <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/thecrumbster/inspiration-body-goods/" target="_blank">Pinterest board</a> for some great links. If you choose to tan, it's really only unhealthy when you sizzle yourself to looking like a lobster. Make sure to keep your skin moisturized and don't rush the process--a little extra Vitamin C never hurts.<br />
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It's also a good time to whiten your teeth for those upcoming photos. I got a great coupon on Crest Whitening Strips through Target (I assume from registering there) for a bride and groom set of whitening strips. Add in the mail-in $10 rebate on the box, and I spent under half the price for the great stuff.<br />
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I consider this an important part of the bridal regimen and I think you'll agree. Nobody wants or plans to be bridezilla--but if you stress yourself out enough, you'll eventually drive yourself crazy, and you start to not care how you act. The best way to prevent that is to regularly take time away from the planning and do normal, fun things. At the time of that decision, you'll feel like you're shooting yourself in the foot because of the voice in your head that says, "if you don't keep planning now it won't all get done in time!" But trust me, all good things are accomplished in the end, not all things are worth accomplishing over your sanity, and you'll do yourself a favor by not pushing your limits all the time.<br />
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It's a good way to keep yourself sane and not drive your friends and family crazy--I'm sure they want to spend some time with just you and not your special notebook. Especially if you're moving away after the nuptials, make memories with the people you won't see that often afterwards.<br />
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Word to the wise (and from a previously stressed bride): this culture has stressed the need to throw a great wedding, to be the best, and impress your guests. But reality check--it's not about that at all. Sure you want it to be nice and fun and enjoyable. But you're getting married to your best friend, saying "I do" for the rest of your lives--THAT is a big deal. And if you don't care more about the marriage after the wedding, let me just say you're doing yourself a disservice. Being too wrapped up in one day isn't worth it, care more about what's left after that day passes.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-63240344347721736822014-02-24T11:25:00.000-08:002014-02-24T11:25:46.030-08:00Pins of the Week.<div style="text-align: center;">
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-51579787304707272122014-02-22T12:41:00.001-08:002014-02-24T11:25:24.664-08:00FREE Printables for your wall.In loo of yesterday's post, I decided that it might be beneficial to make some encouraging reminders that look nice for the home.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-46308444924090932692014-02-21T15:26:00.002-08:002014-02-21T15:26:58.338-08:00What is the Point.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I've had this post sitting in my draft pile for over a month now. It's something that I've been processing through in the last few months, something I've been meaning to share, but haven't quite had the words to say. So it's been collecting dust. But yesterday, as I read the encouraging words that my good friend, <a href="http://www.raindropsonroses.org/2014/02/blessed-are-single-hearted-for-they.html" target="_blank">Jacqueline at Raindrops on Roses</a>, posted, it got me thinking.<br />
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It leads me to ask, "what is the point?" <br />
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I've always been a fan of transparency and so it's time to share some of my own. I don't mean to copy, maybe since we're both at similar stages of life--we think alike. But going off of what she said, with those same thoughts that have been tormenting me, I want to share with you the point.<br />
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Much like Jacqueline, I am a perfectionist. I take my work and home personally. I work hard to tow the line each day. Everything is in it's place and I always deliver my best.<br />
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Mom's will probably laugh at me and someday I'll understand that stage of life. But for now, I juggle being a full-time student, 20 hour worker with an occasional side-job, 1 of 3 leaders at a college business club, regular church attender--fully involved, full-time wife, chef, and maid with a teeny bit of a social & work-out life (and I had the audacity to refresh my blog in the middle of it all).<br />
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Last semester I was pretty good at doing at this--things were pretty much always in balance with the exception of a day or two.<br />
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But this semester, it seems like the last MONTH has been out of whack and I just can't seem to straighten it. One thing always slips, it can never be work--I need the job. So it ends up being the dishes or laundry, sleep, or even worse, my husband. As a result, I have been consistently tired with a migraine. Worn down to the core, I find myself questioning the things that I do. Asking what is the point in all of this if I can't keep up with my standard. <br />
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I'm sure that this was all part of God's perfect plan, but yesterday was one of those days--one of those breaking point days. It seemed as though everything was going wrong, from the little things like nicking my fingers with a knife, the new recipe that I tried for dinner turning out completely nasty (not every recipe on Pinterest is fool-proof), and the house looking as though it had been turned completely upside down to the larger things like my design work--things that I pour hours into, not being good enough, my to-do list doubling in my mind, and a complementary migraine to pair with it.<br />
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I got angry, I cried, I was hurt, I questioned everything. The few things that I thought I was doing ok--in my mind at the time, seemed to be totally the opposite and I began to question my talents, my entire purpose in life. I knew that a good night's sleep would help, but I was still discouraged because I've felt the beginnings of this for a while now.<br />
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In your head, it's easy to <i>know </i>the right thing, but it's entirely different to <i>believe </i>it with your heart.<br />
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I know that I am called to a higher purpose in life than what I can give to myself, I know that I drown myself in my own priorities rather than focus on that higher purpose, and I knew that God was allowing me to go through this "down time" to help me refocus on the right things--trust me, it's happened before.<br />
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But my heart wouldn't believe it. And until that happens, nothing changes because there is no incentive to do so.<br />
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When this morning came, paired with the reflection of yesterday and Jacqueline's words in my head, I believed it.<br />
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This life is not about all those petty things such as dishes, laundry, and even work. Those things can be used and intermingled with that higher purpose, but they are not it. Even my husband, is not it--though God has greatly used him in life to help towards that higher purpose. <br />
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The point is, we are called as his creation to glorify God in all that we say and do.<br />
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This may include doing the dishes, loving your husband, and working to the best of your ability. Those things, how you do them or react to situations reflects God's working in your life. That is what sets apart the believer. But when I demand control of my life's events, when things become the central focus of life, the purpose that I live each day--it all falls apart because none of those things are solid enough to be a foundation. Only God can uphold us, enable us to do, give us a meaningful purpose to live.<br />
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Any other way distorts our view, our purpose--it leads to discontent, frustration, and depression. Our human methods can never satisfy the way that Christ can.<br />
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God has a perfect plan, I tend to get frustrated when that doesn't align with how I think. But this view is incorrect. If we are to live solely to glorify God, then my plan shouldn't matter very much. Of course God gives us opportunities, doors to walk through, tasks to accomplish. It's all very needed. But, it shouldn't blind us from the things that God leads us to do such as encouraging friends, spending needed time with your husband, or taking time to pray and know our Savior more--the dishes don't have to be clean for this to happen.<br />
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The point in glorifying God, is having a right heart and motive. Why do you do what you do? To please people, to prove yourself worthy, or to give your best to God? In glorifying God, we are called to emanate Him towards others, we need to get out of the way so that others can see Christ in us. <br />
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It reminds me of Mary & Martha, although Martha was all about doing good things, she failed to see the priority of taking time away from things to spend time with Christ. It seems to be a constant replay for me--I never seem to fully "get it" when it
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I don't mean to say, "stop doing," but we, I, need to be more aware of the priorities--the things that truly matter to God. Trusting his perfect plan and walking where He leads, putting aside my own lists and to-do's when he asks.<br />
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Life isn't all about checking off lists and when we change our perspective to what God sees as valuable, the petty things become petty and the important things are revealed.<br />
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Be thankful for what God allows in your life, the good and seemingly bad. Spend time in the word and prayer so you can recognize God's hand in your life. Be ok with letting God lead, even if it isn't your ideal. Know that you don't have to fix the world's problems or be individually perfect to be successful for God.<br />
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It's good to be busy with good things, but don't let good things overwhelm you. There is peace in trusting God's plan, in not holding yourself to your own standards, in knowing that the dishes don't have to be done to be successful in God's plan for today.<br />
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We left off last week with how to ask the people that you want to be in your wedding party. Now you're left with another mission to accomplish--choosing what everyone should wear.<br />
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Prior to engagement and even shortly after, I thought that I had this all figured out--but no, my friend, I didn't. Once I sat down and started looking--I realized that my initial plan wouldn't work or was too hard to achieve, I was also in love with several color palettes. Not to mention, halfway through the process--once everything has been sent out and purchased--I started to question the answers that I thought were so good in the beginning stages (but that was wedding stress--it ended up completely fine).<br />
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So I recommend giving yourself plenty of time to decide--not cramming it in and making yourself choose something that you hate or succumbing to said wedding stress and not thinking straight--bad combination.<br />
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I also recommend having your bestie or Mom alongside to help consolidate your thoughts. Maybe you're better off alone, but for me--I had so much on my mind that I wanted to be able to spit something out of my brain and have someone with sense tell me what worked.<br />
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I've long since pitched the paper--but I actually drew stick figures for each person or role in the wedding, and "dressed" them accordingly to see "in my mind" what coordinated. It actually worked--because there are a lot of roles to dress.<br />
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So now, how do you decide? What works together?<br />
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Well, look at your theme--the colors that you decided on, with that in mind what is the first thing that you see?<br />
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For me, being a vintage-rustic-outdoor-summer wedding, I saw dressy-casual, summer dresses, mismatched styles but similar color palette, neutrals with pops of color.<br />
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I already planned to have a lot of white and patterned vintage fabrics in my decor, so rather than follow the popular trend of white bridesmaids that I always wanted to do, I chose to highlight my two favorite colors in the wedding: peach/coral & mint--what better way than on the people standing in the front.<br />
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I'm saving the details on the bride & groom's apparel for another post--so let's start with the bridesmaids & groomsmen, working our way down the line.<br />
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It was super important to me to not require my bridesmaids to purchase one expensive dress, that they hated or would never need to wear again. It's also really hard to decide on one dress that suits all body types. On top of that--I was trying to go for a fun, casual but still "weddingish" theme. I initially wanted to have each girl wear a vintage-floral print dress--but alas, no pretty ones to be found within my budget. Then I was opting to buy a few yards of fabric and include the sewing pattern for a simple shift dress--that way I still controlled the fabric, colors, and styles. However, I was so stressed trying to find all of that--and that's not the point of a wedding--you're getting married, you should be loving it!<br />
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So I considered other alternatives. I have always loved weddings where the bridesmaids have their own unique dress. I chose for my bridesmaids to wear mint and my Jr. Bridesmaids to wear peach--although, you could mix it up and have your MOH wear the alternate color, etc--be creative! And after following through with that plan, I highly recommend it for the following reasons:</div>
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Some girls really like the matching look--it's balanced, and you KNOW that it will coordinate because you picked it out. That's ok! David's Bridal offers a lot of coordinating and matching dresses that you can choose from. My cousin had her bridesmaids wear the same dress, same color, but they each had a custom neckline (strapless, spaghetti, wide strap, etc), I always thought it was a super idea.</div>
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If you do decide to go the route that I chose, I recommend giving the girls some guidelines like I did in my bridesmaid box (<a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2014/02/diy-wedding-3-wedding-party.html" target="_blank">you can see it here</a>). I included pictures so each girl could see what styles I had in mind. I also wrote a little tag with some rules of dress--to keep it modest and similar, I asked that each girl purchase a dress with some strap or cardigan and that it would come to just above the knee (not that I doubted my girls, but it's good to cover your bases and communicate your thoughts). It's good to direct the girls towards some sites that will help them--my favorites are Modcloth, Ruche, Francesca's as well as JCPenney and Bon-ton.<br />
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The girls were also allowed to choose their own shoes--as long as it was "nude," it could be a heel, flat, or sandal--whichever they preferred. I do recommend considering the location--heels don't work the best in grass--FYI. </div>
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Their accessories were included as part of their gift, which we'll talk about in a later post. But I chose some cute, coordinating, vintage brooches, necklaces, hair pieces, and bracelets for each one to "decorate" herself with. It's a great way to give your bridesmaid's gift in the form of something that every girl loves to get! Or you could continue on the simple route and tell them to wear whatever they like and give something else as a gift. </div>
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There is one more thing that you should consider--the hair. Since I was going with a "mismatched" look, I told the girls to do their hair however they liked. Some brides like their girls to have the same 'do, or to have it all pulled up somehow, or half-up or...well, you get the idea. You can always take the girls to a salon for hair and make-up as part of your gift--but I was on a tighter budget, so they were allowed to do whatever they wanted and my wonderful stylist-friend was available to help.<br />
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Btw, the risk in having them pick out their own dresses--paid off! This was the final product:<br />
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I found the guys to be a lot harder than the girls--believe it or not. I'm not sure if that's because I never really had to do intensive suit shopping for a guy before OR if it's that they tend to not care so you're not going to get any executive decisions out of them.</div>
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Some groom's parents offer to pay for the guy's attire--which is fabulous, you have more to work with. But if they can't do that, it's either on you or them. In my case, just like the girls--it was on them (it would be rather unfair, otherwise).<br />
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In the same fashion, the guys were asked to be classy-casual with a vintage twist--so they sported their own unique pair of khaki dress pants, brown shoes, and white shirts--you can't go too wrong with that. As part of their gift, we provided mismatched but coordinating ties & bow-ties, the suspenders, and funky socks--to be fun.<br />
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In passing I thought that I should add in where I got said ties and socks. The socks were part of clearance pack at H&M--love that store. The ties were randomly purchased at various stores on clearance such as JC Penney, Amazon, the TieBar (online), and even the good ole' thrift store.<br />
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I purchased the suspenders through Amazon for roughly $5 a set. You can go fancier, with real leather and such. But I knew my guys weren't huge on suspenders in every day life--so I just bought something that matched for cheap, something that would get them through the wedding.</div>
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It's important to consider the boutineers<b> </b>in your planning! My florist-friend really emphasized this--because shirts have a tendency to not hold the bout upright, so it's best to have something sturdy like a vest, jacket, or suspenders for them to pin to. Unless, you nix the bouts all together.</div>
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Again, consider the location--you don't want to torture your guys by making them wear full-on suits in the daunting summer sun. Be kind.<br />
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If you're going with the matching look--I've heard good things about Jos. A. Bank, JCPenny, Macy's, Mens Wearhouse--there's more, but those are the popular ones and rentals tend to be expensive. Andrew's suit came from Jos. A. Bank--and even though we didn't make use of it, these specialized suit stores often offer great deals for buying several suits at a time. So you can always take all the guys with you--for them to try on and purchase together OR you can snag sizes and get them all yourself. </div>
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It's really important, and I'll stress this later as we work closer to the time of the wedding, that you communicate well if you expect people to bring things, like their attire, to the wedding. An example, I tried to state that the guys should bring a brown belt in case their suspenders don't work, fit, etc. However, they took it as a requirement and sported belts WITH their suspenders. However, it was a minor thing that I don't even think twice about in the pictures and it provides a laugh. But, don't let it be something more detrimental--COMMUNICATE!<br />
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Once you make out what the groomsmen and bridesmaids should look like--you're gold! The rest can be based around that foundation that you just laid. </div>
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The flowergirl is actually quite easy, because they are stinking cute either way. Etsy is a great place to find little, ruffly dresses and hair pieces.</div>
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I coordinated with my flower girl's Mom and had her pick up this adorable ruffle dress on clearance from JCPenney. I bought some pearls for her from Target to complete the look.<br />
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Most ring bearers dress in accordance with the groomsmen. Since my groomsmen only wore wwhite shirts and khakis--it was easy for the ringbearer to duplicate<br />
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I had bought a little bow tie for him to weqr-on sale at JCPenney, but it got mixed up and the officiant took it instead, Thankfully my florist/ planner for the day was on top of things and made this make-shift bow tie out of leftover fabric.</div>
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In my opinion, Mom's love to pick out their dress for this special day. If you point them in the right direction with a complementary color--they should be good to go. Of course, you could always make it fun and plan a Mom-date to go shopping! I chose for the Mom's to sport Champagne dresses--there are a lot of MOBG dresses in this color, it's elegant, and it's close to white, which was perfect for the Mom pictures that I was planning without them matching my dress.<br />
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In our case, Andrew's Dad was the best man--so, to prevent the line-up and pictures from being thwarted, we had the Dad's dress similar to the groomsmen. You could also show differentiation by having them wear another shade or color of tie, or perhaps a unique boutineer. <br />
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Most cases, Dad's wear a nice complementary suit or dress pants to show off when they make their way down aisle. Dad's, like groomsmen, have a tendency to not fret over dressing--so it's probably best to give them what you want them to wear in their size and be done with it.</div>
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This is something that you could easily forget about. Not because you don't care--but because your extended family are not in the immediate line-up and we brides have a way of "spacing out" with all that is on our minds.</div>
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But this might be something you want to consider if you plan to have full family photos taken.<i> </i>I actually completely forgot about this until my sister-in-law and Granny asked what they should wear so they could match for pictures. *Brain-dead moment*</div>
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I told my sister-in-law to complement the bridesmaids--wearing a cute, mint or peach dress. And I asked Grandma's to wear light, floral patterns of their choice. Keeping it neutral but mismatched. Andrew's Grandpa sported a neutral suit coat--and it all worked together perfectly.</div>
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Don't quote me on this, but I believe that next week's post is all about "the dress" aka, YOU--the bride. Don't miss it!</div>
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<i><br />P.S. Don't forget to check out what<a href="http://www.raindropsonroses.org/2014/02/bridal-party-attire-groomsmen.html" target="_blank"> Jacqueline's tips for groomsmen attire</a>! Also, her<a href="http://www.raindropsonroses.org/2014/02/bridal-party-attire-bridesmaids.html" target="_blank"> post on bridesmaid's attire</a>! </i></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-51516591840002593342014-02-11T07:32:00.000-08:002014-02-18T07:31:40.762-08:00"Full of Sauce."Last week I went to town on making my own variety of sauces and dressings. All in attempt to be frugal but primarily healthy. You make it, you know what goes in it. Granted not all of the following recipes are the most nutritious, but they taste delicious (and in our house are considered "weekend stuff").<br />
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Another perk of making your own sauce or dressing is that the recipes are considerate of your time and easy to make. These recipes call for things that you already have in your cupboards. So if you carve out an hour or so (including clean-up) on menu-planning day or baking day, or whatever day that you have, it's easy to include a little sauce in your life.<br />
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This link also shares how to make the nuggets! And if you're like me with no Chick-Fil-A remotely close, even in the same state, this is a great find. Andrew & I made these together a few weeks ago--seriously, so good!</div>
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To define the wedding party, it's a combination of those people that are nearest to you, the best friends, sisters, and college roomies. They are the people that you know will keep you accountable in your marriage, the ones who will smile just as much as you--because you mean as much to them as they do to you, and those who, even if you haven't known since diapers, feel as though you do.<br />
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They are those who you just can't say "I do" without.<br />
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To put it lightly, these are some special people that you are about to ask to partake in your big day. My personal goal, was to honor that special relationship. Instead of sending cards, that can be funny but also inwardly state, "will you be my personal slave for the next 6 months," I wanted to make my girls feel special and honored. That's why I chose them--I hired other connections to help with the workload.<br />
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On that note, bridesmaids want to help--especially that matron of honor that can't get enough of late nights DIY'ing, consoling, and planning over laughs and coffee. But, I wanted to remember that they have their own lives to lead--my wedding isn't their top priority (especially when two are getting married within two months of your own). So, I chose to ask each one to help with one area that they are especially good at, except for the Matron of Honor, like I said, she's a glutton for punishment.<br />
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Jacqueline made a design for our invitations, Tiff painted my thumb-print, guestbook canvas, Lisa helped with gluing pennant flags, and so on and so forth.<br />
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Rather than piling on the lists and demands, I loved having each friend contribute in their own special way (all things which are now decor and memoirs in my home).<br />
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When it comes to <i>who to ask</i>--it shouldn't be much of a struggle. You probably already know who you plan to ask just from imaginary wedding planning in your head. But there is always the issue of even numbers, included siblings, and far-away friends that throw a wrench in the works. These are all things that you personally need to assess-each situation is different. However, word to the wise, pick people that you truly love and can't imagine doing your wedding without--not just people to make the numbers add up. These will be the girls that will be partying with you the night before and getting ready with you the morning of. Whether it's two or six, you shouldn't have to sweat over your choices. If you want to include younger siblings without lengthening the bridesmaids or groomsmen, consider the option of Jr. Bridesmaids or flower girls and ring bearers. <br />
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<i>How you should ask</i>--is the fun part. I found that this portion relates purely to the girls, in most cases. My husband called up his guys and that was that. But girls like to be a bit more creative. There are tons of ideas out there, and I suppose it's based on how much time you have to spare.<br />
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1) <i>Face-to-face</i>. This could be a fun way to get together with your girls, see their reaction when you ask, and chat over weddings things like dresses and makeup. Plan a get-together over brunch, dinner, or coffee and in the midst of the laughter pose your question in your own personal way. You can still opt for cards or small gifts to give out during that time.<br />
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2) <i>A thoughtful card</i>. If my girls lived closer, I would have gone with the first option, however, all but one were at the time, long distance. If you find yourself in this situation or having a hard time scheduling a get-together with everyone, one of your options is to send a card. Sending a card doesn't have to be impersonal--plus, it can save you a lot of time and money, especially if you make them your own. Make sure to write something special inside to each one, and look forward to hearing back from your chickas. Click on any of these pictures to find out more about each card!<br />
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3) <i>A package</i>. This was my option--I had been eying up the "bridesmaid's boxes" online and determined to do it myself on a budget. Pinterest is crawling with creativity, just type in "bridesmaid box" and hundreds of ideas will arrive at your fingertips. Here are a few neato links that I found--so fun and simple.<br />
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The box that I was eying up when I was preparing to ask my girls is shown below. However, I couldn't afford to buy 8 wooden boxes, spend the time painting, and do everything that I wanted to do for the Bridesmaid Brunch before the wedding.<br />
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So I improvised and came up with something like this:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I used paper boxes, mod-podged book pages onto it--and glued poofy, mint fabric to the bottom.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Each girl got their own matching planner (they go on clearance right after the New Year) filled with the information they would need to know in coming to the wedding. This included: important addresses and phone numbers, dates and times. I sent out a more detailed packet of information a month before the wedding, once things were solidified and they were making plans to travel.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Each box included: 1) Personalized, book-page box 2) Book-page girl chain--with names of who was in the party and what role 3) Planner with important dates & information 4) A copy of our Save the Date 5) Photo cards of dresses & shoes to show guidelines of what to look for when shopping 6) Paint chips of the color scheme as well as a tag to verbally describe what girls should dress like 7) Photos to depict the theme and style of our wedding so everyone could be in the loop.</td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br /></td></tr>
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Hope that all of this inspires you as you plan to ask your bridesmaids! Comment below to share your stories and ideas of how you asked or plan to--I'd love to hear your thoughts!<br />
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Over at the <a href="http://www.browneyedbaker.com/2014/02/06/140-valentines-day-recipes/" target="_blank">Brown Eyed Baker</a>, they've put together 140 valentines themed recipes. Ranging from "breakfast in bed" to "after-dinner dessert." </div>
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If you missed the memo and are still in need of a Valentine, or you can't spend the extra $5, go to my last post to print off my <a href="http://elcrumbo.blogspot.com/2014/02/free-printable-valentines.html" target="_blank">personal, FREE printables</a>. They're not even overly sappy. </div>
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If you're like me, the concept of card giving for those sneaky holidays like Valentines, creep up before you even have a chance to think twice about it. Not to mention, most are a little expensive for those on a tight budget. And unless you have insane drawing skills, like Jacqueline over at Raindrops on Roses, you're left with nothing to give.</div>
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But wait, I have the solution! I searched Pinterest far and wide for good Valentines printables, and apart from kiddo central, there weren't any really cool ones that I would actually want to give. So, I made my own and I'm sharing them with you, for FREE.<br />
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<![endif]--><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Cheryl and I go way back. I mean waaayyyy back to the years
of awkward tween-ness that we would all rather forget. As much as we’ve changed
over the years, though, she has always had a knack for art, writing, ingenuity
and over-all craftiness. I’m privileged to be a guest on her blog and hope I
can do it some justice. I hope you can glean something from my experience
making one of the latest recipes I’ve discovered!</span>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">So, I bought some pork tenderloin a while back on a BOGO deal
they were running at Giant (the best kind of deal ever!!). Pork tenderloin can
be on the expensive side, but in this instance, about 3 pounds of meat fed my
husband and me twice and he took it to his jobsite and fed himself and two
employees for lunch one day…and I got 3 pounds free for next time!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I had no idea what to
do with this cut, so I went to the ever-faithful source of
knowledge….Pinterest. I picked the first pulled pork recipe I could find, and
it was a winner!!! It’s the perfect blend of sweet and tangy…and it’s super
easy because it’s made in a slow cooker. Whether it’s made the night before a
big picnic, or thrown together for an easy winter dinner, this BBQ is to die
for! Now I'll show you how to do it.</span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"><span style="mso-char-type: symbol; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;"></span></span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;"></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">One positive about this particular recipe is that it’s
comprised of ingredients you will find in the typical kitchen. Apparently, my
kitchen isn’t typical because I had to substitute a lot of the ingredients….I’ll
explain those later.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">To start, I sliced my onions into longer, thicker pieces.
That’s just the way I prefer them. Either way, they will cook through by the
time you’re done cooking the meat, so it doesn’t really matter.</span></div>
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where I improvised…a lot. I made the mistake of throwing this all together in
the morning on the day I wanted to have it for supper. When I went for all the
things I thought I had, I didn’t have them. </span></div>
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<i><u><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">¼ cup tomato paste</span></u></i><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">- I used an extra ¼ cup ketchup. Same thing basically.</span></div>
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<i><u><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">1 tsp. soy sauce</span></u></i><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">- I used some Worcestershire sauce. I actually really like
this flavor, so I think I’ll make that a permanent adjustment when I make my
own.</span></div>
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<i><u><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">2 tbsp. spicy brown mustard</span></u></i><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">- I used regular mustard. Once again, I’m not sure how
much the spicy mustard would have altered the flavor, but I didn’t mind the
regular.</span></div>
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<i><u><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">1 tbsp. minced fresh garlic</span></u></i><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">- I used about 2 tsp. garlic powder. I LOVE fresh
garlic, and always prefer it. It was seriously the only time I’ve ever not had
any on hand.</span></div>
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3lbs meat), but didn’t have enough of what I DID have to cover it! So to add a
little more liquid, I whisked in half a bottle of store bought BBQ sauce.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 107%;">About 4-5 hours into cooking (the meat should be cooked
through at this point) I pulled my tenderloin out with two big forks and placed
it on a cutting board. The “grain” of the meat will be running long ways across
the length of the cut. Cut the tenderloin (careful, it’s HOT) across the grain
every 4 inches or so, and then pull apart pieces with the forks to give it that
shredded look. Don’t worry about pulling too much…it will continue to separate
as it cooks for the last few hours. (You don’t have to cut the meat into small
pieces, but I prefer it that way so it’s not as messy to serve.) Place the meat
back in the pot and drain off any sauce if it looks like there’s too much.</span></div>
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creative, make it your own and enjoy!</span></div>
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As a blogger, you find yourself taking lots of pictures--anything that you can blog about needs a good shot to go with it. I don't have the best camera out there, so I try to use good lighting and location to my advantage. Still, I don't prefer our speckled counter tops or tacky wood grain furniture to feature my latest creations for the blog. So I pursued other options, and there are many: fabric/paper backdrops hung from the ceiling, a unique surface like a wood cutting board, or just the all-natural.<br />
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I've always enjoyed those clean white pictures that showcase one item, without the distraction of surroundings. Not to mention the fake lighting is hard to beat. However, I certainly can't afford to buy a professional "light box," so I made my own from typical household materials. If you enjoy photography of any kind--this is for you.<br />
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What you need to complete this project are typical household items, perhaps save the posterboard--but a quick trip to the dollar store and you're set. </div>
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The <i>cardboard box can be any size</i>--I've seen shoe boxes used to create a teensy tiny light box all the way up to the biggest box you can ship. If you want to go any larger, I recommend <a href="http://handmadejade.com/2013/07/04/diy-light-box/" target="_blank">making side panels </a>instead of a box to <a href="http://handmadejade.com/2013/07/04/diy-light-box/" target="_blank">create a life size scene</a>. When it comes to deciding on size, it depends on what you wish to photograph--unless it's miniature, it can't hurt to go big.</div>
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<i>Tissue paper or thin white fabric can be substituted for wax paper</i>, although I found wax paper to be the easiest to work with. </div>
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I recommend <i>using two lamps on either side</i>, it could be a bare bulb on a table lamp or a clip-on like mine. Whatever you have nearest to you.</div>
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<i>Painting the box, or covering in white fabric is purely optional</i>, I haven't gotten around to painting mine yet--but it's only for aesthetic reasons. </div>
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#2. With your utility knife still in hand, cut 3 squares from the middle-top sections of the box. You can measure this out if you wish, but I eyeballed it and it turned out just fine--the sides won't show in your pictures, they only exist to let light in.</div>
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#3. Measure out your wax paper to cover each square. I had to tape 2 pieces together to cover one square. Using the clear packing tape won't compromise the transparent sides. </div>
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#4. Place your wax paper panels over each window, securing them with tape as you go. Don't skimp on the tape, use one long strip for each side to fasten securely.</div>
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#5. After all of the panels are on your windows, cut your posterboard to fit snugly inside your box. The top of the board will fit into the top-back corners, and you can let the end drape over the outside edge. </div>
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The posterboard should be slightly curved in the center, not creased. This will give a clean background for your pictures. Mine is slightly exaggerated so that you can see, it doesn't have to be curved that much--you still need to be able to sit an object inside the box.</div>
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We have already arrived at week #2 for the DIY Wedding Series, and as promised, it's all about the fun stuff! Generally speaking, how to pick and choose the fun details to make sure that your personality comes through on your wedding day. This is all about your style and how to represent that in your wedding's theme, colors, and venue.<br />
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First, it's important to<b> </b>pinpoint what your particular <b>STYLE </b>is so that you can decide on a <b>THEME</b>. Do you like clean lines or messy ones? Bright colors or neutrals? Classy or casual? This can generally be decided by looking around you: what do you surround yourself with in your room, home, or office, what decor draws your eye, what setting gives you that peaceful, "I'm in element" feel, or what's your favorite color? <i>It helps to peek on Pinterest or catalogs and peruse through other wedding ideas, certainly</i>. But it helps to know first <i><b>who YOU are</b></i> so that you don't get lost in all of the ideas that are out there.<br />
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The current trend with weddings is all about expressing yourself. The rules and guidelines aren't typically required anymore. Back in the golden 1900's, when you and I were born (I'm assuming), weddings were all very standard--with specific rules and etiquette for how to do things. In a way, it's easier, because everyone could share their weddings things and it all typically matched, much less strain on the nerves. But on the other hand, there's no imagination or creativity in that. <br />
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For me, my style at the time of our wedding was rustic-vintage, I still hadn't nailed down exactly what I liked (taste will change with time), but I knew I wanted my wedding pictures to portray that specific theme. Time of day and season of the year generally result from the more technical issues to consider, but they play a part in your theme as well. For instance, a morning wedding in the spring suggests: brunch, pastels, and greenery. While a evening wedding in the summer suggests: dinner or dessert, vibrant colors or whites, and wild or exotic flowers.<br />
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Style and theme also embodies how upscale you would like your wedding to be. For me, the emphasis for the reception was on having fun, not confining the guests to certain rituals or long dinners. The ceremony was geared to be sentimental and meaningful, since we both marriage very seriously. By having the ceremony outdoors on a summer evening paired with the attire of the wedding party, it gave the air of a more casual yet priority of an exciting occasion.<br />
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Obviously your theme will flow as a result of your style, mine: A fun, casual, but meaningful wedding in the cool of a summer evening, with rustic-vintage elements, over dessert, festivities, and mingling. <br />
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just about anything and get away with it. I will say that as much as I love navy/grey and yellow or any other popular wedding palette, it's a little overdone. I can't say too much, after choosing mint/peach/neutrals for my wedding colors they announced it as the official 2013 wedding colors. But even with the overdone colors--there is a reason that they are "overdone." They look great together! So if that's what really floats your boat--go for it! <br />
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In my case, I loved so many colors and palettes that I had a hard time choosing. I'm more of a admirer of many colors rather than committing to one favorite, although I would probably choose yellow. So I went to Lowes and scoured their paint chip section--every color palette that is appealing to the eye is there, and they're free for the taking. I realized that I was buying an excessive amount of mint things and adoring peach hues, so I put the two together and ta-da!<br />
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Once I narrowed it down, I cut and pasted my favorite colors and elements onto one piece of paper and based the rest of my color themed decisions off of that. It was also helpful to show to the florist and anyone else who may need toknow.<br />
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Finally, <b>VENUE. </b>This also varies on availability and budget. But if you can afford it and it's a priority to you it can be done. I always wanted my wedding to be outdoors/ in a barn. To me, that epitomizes a fun, romantic, vintage wedding. Some prefer the traditional church setting or a more modern, industrial approach in a up-cycled building.<br />
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Typically, most brides know where they want their dream wedding to take place. But I still encourage you to look at your options--it might surprise you that you prefer the historical plantation over the garden, or the lake over the church. Some of my friends have gotten married at their home or a relatives--because they are so lucky to own such property. If it's available, take a tour or two.<br />
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The factors to consider when it comes to venue is: size--how many people can comfortably be there, location--how far or easy is it to get to (some people prefer a destination wedding or a small trip, based on what they have close by--I veered more on convenience since I love residing in Lancaster County), what you can do/ not do with the venue (based on how much you want to decorate or what your thoughts are on food), and what are the extra buildings/land that you might have access to for pictures, rehearsal, or if some/all of the party needs to get ready there on the wedding day.<br />
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<i>P.S! Check out <a href="http://www.raindropsonroses.org/2014/02/wedding-inspiration-2014-pantone-color.html" target="_blank">Raindrop's on Rose's</a> ideas for implementing the 2014 Color of the Year, Vibrant Orchid, into your own wedding!</i></div>
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With Valentines Day quickly approaching, I've been eying up some simple ideas to decorate our home. I've been very drawn to clean lines, white walls, black and gold accents, with pops of color. When I came across this <a href="http://www.architectureartdesigns.com/30-easy-peasy-diy-valentines-day-crafts/" target="_blank">Valentines DIY, </a>I immediately thought that I would use this year round. So cute and easy! I believe that in this particular link, they painted the stripes on the canvas, then applied the buttons with hot glue. Although, it wouldn't hurt to make stripes of black duct tape--no messes there!<i> </i></div>
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One of my favorite, weekend, breakfast recipes is the one and only, <a href="http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2009/12/monkey-muffins/" target="_blank">Pioneer Woman's Monkey Bread Muffins</a>. In fact, I made them this morning<i> </i>and it was so easy and fun to make that my husband joined in the assembly. If you're a fan of monkey bread, you will love these mini nuggets of heavenly bliss!</div>
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<i> </i> This is pretty self-explanatory, but I had one of those moments when I saw this picture and slapped myself for not thinking of it. I've always been accustomed to pouring bacon grease into a mug, which in turn sits around for 1-2 weeks until I get around to warming it up and dumping it outside. So when I saw this picture, you can imagine my relief. Forming tin foil over a bowl, pouring the grease into the "foil bowl," then rolling up and throwing up once hardened--how easy is that?</div>
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This project is all about producing a magazine specifically for Christian women. If you're like me, you haven't touched a Christian based magazine since your days in Brio as a pre-teen. Primarily because...there are none. And if there are, they tend to be cheesy or irrelevant, especially to young Moms and 20-somethings. Pardon my harsh tone, but it's unfortunately true.<br />
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First off, the magazine looks insanely like Kinfolk (one of my top 3 favorite magazines) because it has that same great photo quality and feel about it. Heavy paper and clean lines. Just one look at the cover, and you want to flip through the pages.<br />
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<span style="line-height: 1.45em;">They are currently standing on 20 days left to raise the money they need to publish this magazine. They are a purely non-profit organization, nothing goes to them--but if they don't receive the set amount of $11,200, they won't receive any funding and the magazine will be a no-go at that point. They're offering up great prizes for each level of donation including: wood burned signs, free magazines, and tote bags.</span><br />
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The reason that I found the site in the first place was for a printable rose pattern that I snagged on Pinterest.With those paper roses I chose to make a few pretty wreaths to garnish our bare walls.<br />
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Well, it's officially Monday and the start of another week. But whats more, it also marks the first day of my DIY Wedding Series. Where else to start than with the details.<br />
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Details, although sometimes painstaking, lay the groundwork for any event, especially weddings. About a month before you get to say, "I do," you'll start wishing that you never have to think through or decide on another detail again. For that reason, it may be tempting to jump right into the fun stuff, but without these essential details you won't have any place for those fun things to go. However essentials these details and decisions may be, it's hard to know where to begin. Especially if you're trying to be budget friendly and doing mostly everything yourself.<br />
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First things first, once you set the date for your much anticipated nuptials, it's time to decide on your budget. I recommend enjoying engagement for a few days or a week before you even begin to consider these things--start off with the mentality "enjoy the process" and don't let it eat your nerves alive. Whether or not your parents are involved with the financing, you MUST prioritize where you want your money to go. For me, it looked like this:<br />
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So that was where the majority of my budget went, or at least the larger sums. The rest was divided amongst other needs, and trust me there can be many when it comes to weddings.<br />
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Make sure to account for spots in the budget like rentals, gifts, and beauty supplies (the little things we forget about until later). </div>
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I will say that with the budget friendly mentality, the majority of the remaining money was spent on the materials to make our decorations, favors, etc. When it comes to that, the greater cost is your time; therefore, you must also figure what is really worth your time or what is better to spend the little extra to have things done for you in exchange for your sanity. You can see all of the tough decisions over time frame and budget. In the end, talk to your close family and friends for advice, but ultimately trust your gut decisions because it's your wedding day and you know what you want the outcome to be. <br />
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When it comes to details and organizing, I know that not everyone is an "organizing freak of nature" like myself. That's not a bad thing. Everyone has their own opinions on how much to invest, or how much they want to invest. There is no wrong answer. But there are times in life when we all need to be a little organized, and that time, my friend, is now.<br />
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Before anything else, go out to your local Target or Walmart and buy yourself a pretty planner that you like to look at (because trust me, it'll become your second brain and it'll start to go everywhere that you go). Then I highly recommend, paying a visit to <a href="http://theknot.com/">theKnot.com</a> and printing off a monthly checklist. <br />
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Granted, you won't need everything that they list and your timing might be varied, for those of us who get hitched in under 6 months time. But for the most part, the list gives you an idea of what you should be doing and when. It's handy, because there will be so much information crammed into your noggin that you can't remember every little thing.<br />
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You should probably accept the fact that not everything will get done or be the way that you want it when it's all said and done. That's OK! Unless you're superwoman, you can't do it all--don't try to kill yourself over it. With that said, give yourself plenty of time (within your set time frame) to accomplish what you want to get done. Assume that DIY's will take 3x's longer than planned, that you might have to redo a thing or two, or you might not find something that you need that fits your budget. So start early with what you can--not everything can be done early, but most DIY's, invites, and wedding party things can be. Start early so that you're stressing about it later when you'll have other things on your mind.<br />
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To top it off, theKnot's services are free. You can even opt to do most of your planning through this website with it's inspiration boards, online checklist, popular website listings, make a free wedding site for your guests, and 360 universal registry capacity. I personally didn't bother with everything that they offered, but it's free and professional, and so you may as well take advantage of what they can help you with.<br />
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Even more than theKnot, I utilized Pinterest. It was the place that I dreamed up a vision for our wedding and corralled all of the helpful links into one spot. I'm going to set you up with one of my <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/thecrumbster/august-3rd-tips/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> wedding boards, it's where I kept all of the helpful tips and printables.<br />
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But above all, even with the grueling details--have fun! Invite your bestie over and do this together over dessert and laughs. Enjoy this time, because it'll be over before ya know it...and yes, this is coming from a bride that did all of this just last year. <br />
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Make sure to check back next Monday where we'll actually get into the fun stuff like theme, colors, and venue. <br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06951734937820209195noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4651363001824687601.post-78074807339576516892014-01-24T09:04:00.000-08:002014-02-12T18:39:38.852-08:00Pins of the Week.Happy Friday! I'm not sure about you, but it feels like this week has gone by extremely slow. But hallelujah, there is light at the end of the tunnel and I look forward to some R&R this weekend (since last weekend never really came).<br />
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Today is the first day of "Pins of the Week," so I'll elaborate on my scheme a little bit. I've broken it down into categories that I've found are my top searches--the things that I look for the most. What I have thus far: Recipes, DIYs, Nifty, Printables, and a Bonus pin of whatever theme.<br />
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exciting. I have a massive pin board of breakfast items, so it's mostly
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Nifty pins are those that when you see them, you typically respond by "how did I not know or think of that" and proceed to question the rest of your existence.<i> </i>Pinterest is full of handy tips and tricks that either pertain to organization, decorating, cooking, you name it. I currently have a fascination with painting things gold or gold leafing. I was also in the market for some cheap, but cute magnets. I even distinctly remember walking by the utensils aisle in Walmart and seeing those primary-colored, alphabet magnets for .99 and wishing that they sported better colors. Of course that same night I stumbled across this pin and had one of those aforementioned moments...I couldn't believe I hadn't thought of it, it was so simple. And aren't those the best DIY's? The link for this picture is actually for Monogram jewelry, but I got the idea from someone who previously pinned it and wrote underneath, </div>
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What's even more fun is that you can leave messages for your special someone and maintain a mature color palette at the same time. It's good to mix in some things from our youth with the present. Plus, the feeling of whipping out your spray paint is irreplaceable. </div>
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"Hi, my name is Cheryl and I am a printable addict." I love finding things online that I can print for FREE. There is truly no limit to these findings. Of course you have to dodge the rather expensive ones, but if you simply type in "free printables" on Pinterest, they will come to you. What's nice is that you can choose your paper...cardstock or printer, ivory or white...based on your current budget. You can print things for your walls, coloring pages for your kids, and menu plans for next week. I have a plethora of printables to share this week based on "organizing your life for the new year." For myself, I am a LIST person. Otherwise my mind runs rampant with everything that I could or should be doing and I drive myself crazy.</div>
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With this new blog, I've been searching for lists and calendars that I won't mind if I have to make another or worry about wasting money. What better way than printables! They're easy to mark up and print off if need be. </div>
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Also in line with the blogging are actual pages designed for planning your blog. There are several of these as well, but this was my favorite...I like more simplistic and modern. Ashlee Proffitt also features a pink to-do list that matches this blog page, and it's also free. I tried out a few other planning page but prefer this in the end because it's straightforward and forces you write out the steps of the process so that things are planned and organized. </div>
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And last but not least, a cleaning chart. That is insanely cute, so you can hang it on your fridge and it only make things look nicer. But also helps you to feel better about your cleaning escapades. Cleaning is clearly the never-ending story, especially if you have a husband that likes to "decompose" as he walks through the house...shoes there, wallet here, keys there, dirty clothes littering my bedroom...and we don't even have kids yet. That scares me. Needless to say, I constantly feel the need to clean. I'll admit that I can be a little OCD about it, but if I just cleaned it, I want it to stay that way. For me finding this list was great help, because it helps me to categorize when to do certain cleaning...as in the bigger chores (we only 4 bowls and plates so...dishes are a necessity). And I found that Andrew looks at that and knows what I'm working on each day, so he's more prone to help out. </div>
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